Accidentally Wear "Little Shoes".

Everyone in the workplace and office space is like a breeze. Hello, I am a good company. I always keep elegant manners and gentlemanly manners. But who knows, sometimes privately, it also flows underneath.

"Wear small shoes" is a kind of shameful soft knife, "killing" is invisible.

White collar boy, little girl, have you ever met?

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How do you wear "little shoes"?

Shi Yu has been criticized again. This is the third time this week.

Yuan manager and Shi Yu's top manager, Liao manager, are very good. Because of this, Yuan manager often comes to Shi Yu's Department, and there are some cross working relationships between the two departments.

Once, Shi Yu took a plan to report to Liao manager when Yuan manager was there.

It took Shi Yu more than a week to work out this plan. Shi Yu thinks he will pass it. In fact, Liao manager is very sure about this plan.

But who knows that Yuan manager has interfered with it and put forward many opinions on the plan. At last, the plan was almost negated by Yuan manager.

Liao manager listened to Yuan manager's statement and changed his attitude to the plan. He said to Shi Yu, "let's leave this plan first. Wait till I think about it."

On hearing this, Shi Yu came to his temper and dropped a sentence. "It seems that I will report back later, and I shall have to find Mr. Yuan's absence."

Yuan manager listened with anger and said, "what do you mean by that?"

So the two men quarreled.

After that, Yuan manager kept a close eye on Shi Yu and inspected Shi Yu every day as if she were inspecting. When she had a slight difference, she immediately reported to Liao manager, and then Shi Yu was called to Liao manager's office to be criticized.

After wearing small shoes...

Xiao Zhang was then given a pair of "small shoes" because of his rude remarks.

The way to walk in shoes is imaginable. The only way to do that is to go home and take off your shoes.

In melancholy, Xiao Zhang also wanted to understand some truth.

There are two kinds of "wear shoes": either shoes worn out or feet worn through shoes.

Wearing a pair of shoes is similar to the ancient women's feet. They may have been somewhat unaccustomed at the beginning but have to curl their feet, but they are better than barefoot.

As time goes on, feet become accustomed to them. At the same time, they also realize that leaders are leaders. People are always right. Why can't they get along with others?

At this time, the leadership's spirit also disappeared.

Then, after the leadership, there was a lot of people who were curling up their feet. The man was the one who broke his feet.

Xiao Zhang chose to wear shoes with his feet: after all, the shoes did not have a hard wall, so they could go to the top of the wall.

At this time, the feet can also breathe outside.

Stubborn Xiao Zhang repeatedly attacked the leaders, and his colleagues were somewhat impressed by him.

Later, however, Xiao Zhang left the company.

Tips for preventing "little shoes"

Tips, never contradict your boss.

When you are in conflict with your boss, you must first admit that you are wrong.

In addition, try to get along with your boss.

Tips two, do not believe that the boss will do "listen to each other."

Your boss's understanding of you is not only your work performance, but also through others' mouths, and sometimes someone else's "small report".

So we need to be fortified everywhere.

Tip three, don't flatten your boss very flatly.

A bad flattery makes it easy to show a horse's feet.

What's more, if the front line between the boss and the boss is blurred, the team is mistaken.

Tips four, learn to credit your credit to your boss.

Even if you are strong enough, you must be modest in thinking that you are wisely prompted by your boss, plus your little intelligence.

Tips five, don't trust your colleagues too much.

No matter what you do behind your boss, complain about anything, express any dissatisfaction with the company, your colleagues will not keep secrets for you, they will only become a hidden time bomb.

Tips six, do not think that as long as the work done well, you can be appreciated by your boss.

When your boss inspects you, you will not simply look at your work performance, but also other factors, such as communication skills, trust and so on.

It is necessary to learn "office politics".

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The bell must be unlocked.

It is unfortunate for the boss to "wear small shoes", but still need to calm down and analyze the reasons carefully to find out why the boss has put on your shoes. It is because you have offended him, or is your character not attracted to him?

Or more complicated things like workplace politics.

Then look at the ways to solve these problems.

If you can't find the cause or find the reason, you can't solve it, then find another way out.

In this environment, if your boss is very focused on you and the contradiction is irreconcilable, it is necessary to find another way for yourself.

Small shoe model

No. 1 - strike the form: say bad words and cool words, criticize you for not working hard.

No. 2 - Revenge: catch a slight mistake in your work and exaggerate it.

No. 3: out of the box: vilify and slander you.

No. 4 deliberately ignoring the form of expression: no matter how hard you work, you get no attention.

No. 5: the form of prejudice: as long as you do the work, it is certainly not good.

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Beautify the shoes and give them to the leaders in the form of gifts.

Or do a favor, give the shoes to the little ones directly.

-- Hui Feng

Zhao Benshan said in a sketch: "there is something wrong with fear. If there is any mistake, it will be changed."

Besides, people are bosses. It's nothing to lose.

If you give your boss face, your boss will never wear your shoes again.

Poor scholar 889

When the official likes to welcome you, if you turn around like a "dog" around you, then you will turn from a "dog" into a "wolf dog". If you dare to stand up in front of him and cry out like a wolf dog, then he will dress you with "little shoes" and turn you into a "little sheep".

Jiangnan Island

The taste of "little shoes" is not pleasant. It's like dumb food.

Clear air

It's easy for people to wear small shoes. This may be the boss's right.

When we are afraid of wearing it, the people will become dirty, dirty and dirty, so that there is no truth in our minds.

ROC

Do foot plastic surgery, learn the ancients feet fit, strive for comfortable wear small shoes.

Loose pine rabbit

Noun explanation: wear small shoes.

[original meaning] after the Southern Song Dynasty, Han women in China followed the bad habits of foot binding, and the smaller the feet were, the more beautiful they were believed to be. The name was "three inch Golden Lotus".

In the past, marriage was a matter of parents' fate and matchmaker's words. Men and women could not see each other, so they could only measure the beauty of a woman according to the size of their feet.

Therefore, when the matchmaker talks about the media, she must first ask the man to look at the shoe pattern of the woman to show the size of the woman's feet. Once the man agrees to his relatives, he will leave the shoe sample and make a pair of embroidered shoes according to the size to send to the woman's home with the engagement gifts. On the wedding day, the bride must wear these embroidered shoes to avoid being deceived.

If you deliberately make the size smaller, you will naturally feel uncomfortable or even wear it, so the woman will make a fool of herself.

Later, people spread this custom to social life. They used to refer to people who wear their brains behind their heads, or use some kind of authority to find people who are in trouble.