A Quick Scan Of Workplace "Four Poisoned People"

Their clothes are heavy and single, and they are mainly black, grey and blue. They seem to be young and full of vicissitudes of life, and their eyebrows are always twisted. In their eyes, all the treatment of the company is unfair, and all the leaders of the company should be killed. All the colleagues in the work are stupid and incompetent.

Whenever someone asks her about her recent situation, she habitually answers, "not very good.

Well, listen to me. "

They scorn happiness, but never mean to criticize others with acrimonious words.

Grumbling and anger are the most striking characteristics of the "Xiang Lin sister-in-law".

Typical faces:

A female colleague sitting next to me had a piece of leather on her leg. I could not ask her what was going on. I knew she would talk about personal medical insurance from the traffic condition if she asked her questions, and she could not finish it in half an hour.

In fact, as long as she appeared in the office, I would not be able to escape from the psychological torture that lasted for several hours. She would really be in the "Tang Seng" dispatch unit all day, not from the front desk to the general manager, and then to the aunt who swept the sanitation department.

Obviously it is something that has nothing to do with her, but under her continuous bombing, I have to do everything possible to get rid of her infectious negative emotions.

I remember that after a new staff meeting ended, several newly arrived college students were gearing up for their enthusiasm, but she came to the point with great enthusiasm: "in such a ghosts, do not want to have opportunities for development."

The impact is too bad!

- 26 year old marketing assistant

Tough tactics:

Most of these grumpy people have genes in their bones that are "more heart than nature and life is thinner than paper". Even if she satisfies all her requirements, she will be very picky.

So, you'd better not show your enthusiasm to your topic, listen to it, pay attention to it, just listen to it, even if you don't even have a key point. Half approval can make her nagging endless. If you are too "compatible with her", it will virtually expand the negative emotions and become the communicator of the virus.

You can try to blow her up and ask her, "why don't you just change your environment and go away if you are so upset with the status quo?"

Of course, if she is really in trouble, you must provide timely help.

"Xiang Lin Sao" self rescue plan:

How to hate in the heart is higher than the sky. You must also remember a motto: silence is golden.

If there is more complaining and waiting for vent, try to put all the unhappy words in the form of E-mail to a friend who has no working relationship. He will solve your worries for you.

The main advantage of this is that your resentment has been unwittingly released in a most low-key way.

Second kinds of poison people: small speakers

Warning features:

"The tick, the trumpet begins to broadcast."

Don't think the trumpet is so good.

First of all, she must have the ability to be a spy. She has the determination to pursue the vision, the insight and perseverance, and the unafraid of the white eye. She also has the talent to play host, and she can make the story that appears, heard, or even come up with a head and soul.

This kind of person is the distributing center of office rumor, the big red man in the tea house, and makes fun by making and spreading rumors.

In this information society, you must never belittle her function. With her, you can always grasp the company's trend and stand at the forefront of the company's "gossip". If you provoke the unspoken gossip, you may well be swept away by her reputation.

Classic face:

She came to you again with mysterious faces. "Do you know?

The Secretary of the research and development department, Xiao Wang, is the one with long hair. She is pregnant.

Hei hei, she is only 20 years old, and no boyfriend, how do you say this belly bulge up? "

Every time she pulls a chair to sit next to you, it must be endless. From the chief executive's sex scandal to the financial Baby's sleeping posture, press spokesman.

So sensitive places, so sensitive topics, I really do not know what to do.

Whether the source is reliable or not, the key is that she never cares about my interest in her "inside story".

- 28 year old programmer

Tough tactics:

For such a person, the best way is to stay away from it. One thing you'd better pay attention to is to try not to talk about your private affairs in the office, because this type of person likes to spy on other people's privacy, and your private affair will certainly be their material.

They are at best a villain, not a villain, so you don't need to be against them. If she takes the spearhead at you, for the general rumor, remember that "the clear people are clear and the turbiders are self muddy". They do not need to pay attention; for excessive rumours, they can be "court", and rumors are often slandered. Libel may infringe upon your reputation right, and you can not sit idly by.

"Small horn" self rescue plan:

Learn to keep your mouth shut, especially on topics related to your colleagues' private lives.

Remember, dripping can wear stones. At the critical moment, you will realize how valuable your colleagues' trust is.

If you are extremely keen on spreading some low-level gossip, at least you should not expect others to be equally keen on listening.

Sooner or later, those colleagues who are different from others will avoid you.

Third kinds of poison people: apple polisher

Warning features:

It can be said that almost all people have seen such people. They always sit in the first row when they open the meeting. Even if they drink seven meat and eight calories at the time of group dinner, they must change their cups with their leaders.

It is a universal mentality that people go up high. It is terrible that there is a kind of person in the apple polisher, who can achieve her own goal by stepping on the people around him.

She has many tricks to play, or to make a small report, deliberately depreciate you, or to embarrass you directly in front of your boss. When the leader reprimand you, she will smile as a "Gong Gong Bian", so that you will be caught off guard and suddenly become a big idiot.

Classic face:

Several colleagues in our department have been working together on the same table for lunch. Every time a Xue Qi, she always sits alone in a corner.

One day, the vice president came to the restaurant to have dinner with us. Meggie's eyes were flying around us. First, he wanted to create a good impression of "gregarious".

More abominable, she always likes to let her colleagues play the role of a fly in front of their superiors. At a meeting, the boss mentioned that she was looking for new customers. She immediately turned around and said to me, "think carefully, why can't we find new plans?"

This is her basic job responsibility, but it shields me. I can't speak for a moment. I look like an incompetent fool.

- Lucy, 27 year old advertiser manager.

Tough tactics:

This kind of people usually come from the small family and their quality is low. If they don't go too far, you don't have to talk to them, try to avoid them. Even if she comes to you, never join her circle. If you meet her unfortunately, when she starts to mess up, the best way to do it is to "start with her hands first" and cross her to reveal her bad deeds to the leaders at higher levels.

She will make a small report and lead to the prejudice of the leader. The only thing you can do is to go to the leader to make it clear and increase the communication between each other.

Nowadays, everyone has the same intelligence, and no one can control others.

If you really encounter such a thing and speak with facts, rumors will not break through.

If she is the leader, let you down, do not feel stressed and should answer the questions immediately, bypass their traps, but do not care about others, because they will go all in to catch up. In the face of this sharp problem, humor may be the best defense.

The "flatterer" self rescue plan:

Take proper measures when you climb up.

You can never predict that behind those silent little people, there will be no big people backing up, or they will never have any influence on the big ones.

Besides, if your boss feels that you are making enemies everywhere, this impression will do you no good, even if you don't like your company in the company.

Fourth types of poison: fake Phoenix

Warning features:

The motto of this man is "wine is afraid of alley".

She wants to let the spotlight always take her as the object, to appear superior to others everywhere. They rely on their small looks and will lose no time to fully display their female charm in front of their male colleagues. She will interrupt every thing you say, and she will prove that she knows more than anything else -- her voice must be the biggest in the office.

They walk randomly and lightly, and they can tear you to pieces without mercy. Their skillful techniques of glimpsing people with their eyes can easily belittle your clothes, your social circle and your favorite people, depreciate people and exceed the standard things that they have seen and passed through.

She wants you to be around them, just like a clumsy middle school student who always wants to be absorbed by the most popular group in the class.

Classic face:

She is acting too exaggerated.

Talking about the past experience, it is amazing to talk about the past. At the age of 22, she went to more than 70 countries and took the visa of many N countries. In a distant country, there were countless men with blond hair and blue eyes or black hair who died for her. Before they came to the company, they ran a small multinational company with a large number of staff and money.

Hearing us stunned, she seemed to be a proud peacock. She talked and worked hard, always looking down at her, just like a superstar in the office.

- 26 clerk slowly

Tough tactics:

The reason why she was willing to be the focus of the crowd was that she had an unresolved vanity or a concealed inferiority.

Because of their lack of insight and vision, they could not know that they were nothing but frogs in the well. They thought that the narrow sky that they saw was already the whole blue sky. They were very sad indeed.

So when you realize this, they may not have so much hatred for them. If they are boasting about themselves and competing for favor, you don't have to waste time arguing with them.

Because you and they are not at the same level, let them show their glory.

Everyone is a discerning person and stands in the open. Any casual detail will make it easier to expose their weaknesses.

The "Phoenix Phoenix" self rescue plan:

In fact, under the shell of official business, you can skillfully display the charming and attractive aspect, so you don't have to strive to invert the image of sentient beings.

Face up to yourself, ask yourself once you finish one sentence. Is it true that I said just now?

Never let your own halo ring itself.

I would like to tell you that I am not different from them. Only when I am a low-key person, can I truly applaud you when real talent is revealed.