Fourth Kinds Of Emotions In The Workplace

    那是一種很奇怪的情感，不同于暗戀，也不同于傾慕，更不同于同事關系，只是一種不自覺的“相吸”。 

Almost every white-collar worker feels this way. He takes a certain person in office as the spiritual pillar of his work, and he knows and appreciates each other.

Some bosses will make good use of the fourth emotions to maintain team spirit with their employees. Some employees will also play a role in this way, so that they can become more popular in office and have a firm foothold.

Fourth emotions, a small number of emotions and more interest factors, in the modern enterprise system, it plays a different role in promoting the rules and regulations.

    心甘情愿打工 

    Maggie梁／25歲／網絡公司／職員 

Comment: the general staff will have an awe of their superiors and sometimes develop into worshipping.

Maggie has a little bit of professional worship.

Rickey is my supervisor. Actually, we are alumni who graduated in the same year.

Because of the same school and the same class, there are always some common friends who naturally feel close to each other.

When I first switched to this company, I was interviewed by Rickey.

After the interview, he smiled at me. It was strange that I knew from his smile that I must have been hired.

I know that smile doesn't mean anything, but I always remember his smile.

Rickey is very popular in this small network company. On the one hand, he has a very strong working ability. He can easily solve the difficult problem. He always says "It\ s a piece of cake".

On the other hand, he is young and handsome. He is a little over 80 meters tall. He is very conspicuous wherever he goes.

Rickey is the supervisor. There is a big office. It is a big glass on the face of the staff office. When he looks up, he can see the movement outside.

By coincidence, my position is right across from him.

From the first day of work, I developed the habit of looking at his office in the gap.

Occasionally, when four eyes are opposite, he will smile at me.

The smile made me work harder.

Rickey explains things to employees, and comes out of the office himself, and goes to someone to explain the work.

I don't know why, but I just like him. Before his boss, a lot of things were done, and a little bit of things were called to the employees and put on a big face.

Every time I finish my work after Rickey, I always pass by my desk. This is my favorite time. He will smile and ask me how the latest project has been done.

Then I never forget to take care of myself.

In the past, I had worked with Rickey for a project. At that time, he praised me for working hard and planning creatively.

At that time, he told me not to be so tired at work.

Unexpectedly, he always remembered.

I know that this is just the normal concern of the boss to his subordinates, but every time he hears his greetings, he feels very warm and works harder when he works.

The company's colleagues called me Maggie, but Rickey didn't enter the company for a few days. He called me Piggie in private. He said pigs were his favorite animals, so it was also very cordial.

Every time I hurt him, I emphasized that I was not fat at all. He always laughed like this and said it had nothing to do with fat and thin.

After a long time, I realized that Rickey's former girlfriend was a girl with the same big eyes as me. He called her Piggie.

I know that even this does not mean anything. What Rickey needs is just for his willing employees.

I understand all these management strategies, but I am willing to continue working for Rickey.

Another year, our department will recruit several interns, and the interviewer is me and Rickey.

One of the girls at the end of the interview, Rickey nodded a courtesy smile to her. The smile made me feel the warmth of deja vu. I had a strange decision. At the time of announcing the employment list, I finally did not tell the girl's name.

    女秘書是家庭以外最重要的人 

Mr. Zhang /48 years old / private business owner

Comment: it is the management strategy of some bosses to treat subordinates more closely than friends.

In the increasingly competitive market, the competition of talent has already become hot. Apart from salary and human relations, a boss's personal routine and a brooch may be more attractive.

"I have a happy family and I have the ability to provide a happy life for my family. I feel that I am a competent husband and father."

When he interviewed Mr. Zhang, he started talking about it from his family.

Perhaps middle-aged people have a more profound view of the concept of home.

But my biggest regret is that I can't accompany my family well because of busy work.

Your company needs to worry about everything.

Working days have been very busy in the company. Every few weeks, we will fly to Beijing, Guangzhou and other places to talk about the project.

Sometimes I can have time to invite my staff to eat, but I don't have time to eat with my wife.

It is easy to know that a private enterprise leaves a capable person. The boss must have personal charisma.

Ouyang was an excellent secretary. When she asked her, she told me that the monthly salary was no less than 5 thousand yuan. I said, I will give you an annual salary of 100 thousand yuan, but the job must be excellent.

Facts have proved that my vision is good, as far as the company operation, project bidding arrangements, small daily administrative affairs, for my wife to buy birthday gifts, she handled well.

My wife often praised Ouyang for being sensible, and invited Ouyang Lai to dinner at our house. Ouyang and my little daughter also got along well. I think Ouyang has become my right-hand man in my work. I haven't told her many things yet. She has already told me.

There are some important people in every person's life. I think Ouyang has become another important person outside my family and important to me.

    一句理解的話就足 

Chris/36 years old / foreign enterprise / department head

Comment: people get along well with each other, but the tacit understanding of work is different from life. Not every pair of partners is suitable for continuous development. Chris has no further choice. This reason may be right.

Chris is a beautiful woman who looks at her appearance only at the age of 30.

"Tacit understanding sometimes is just a look, a voice that others listen to carelessly", Chris says: "I have superior, also have subordinate, can really let a person feel intimate not much."

Paul, it's a close mind. "

The boss always gives me credit and I know he has his own problems.

Once, a new employee and I were making trouble. I went to Paul to complain. He patted me on the shoulder and said he knew I was tired. At that time, I really had a feeling of withered heart. I really wanted to cry on his chest, but we all knew it was impossible.

But a word of understanding is enough to make me moved.

I believe in my heart and I feel this way with Paul. Sometimes we read the same book in the same period, say the same words, and even use the same word frequently.

For example, when we were popular with Anne baby, we often told each other not to be decadent.

Decadent, actually is a very good word.

We don't have a staff restaurant, everyone has no fixed lunch, but Paul and I have their own place. It's in a western restaurant under the company. I wait for him until 12 o'clock at noon. If he can come out, we'll go there to eat together. If he's still busy, I'll order a table meal.

On the birthday of Paul, I sent him a box of violet seeds.

Later, he told me in E-mail that violets opened a flower.

I said, that one must be very beautiful.

He said, now that he sees purple, he will think of me.

    男女搭配干活不累 

Mr. Li is /27 years old / media / reporter.

Comments: men and women collocation is not tired, this rule is often tested, which is the most common among the fourth emotions.

But ugly women do not have the honor, this "female" must have some attractions, in order to achieve the purpose.

The news department is generally acknowledged to be the most tired, so no female colleagues are normal.

After sending away countless men, the leader finally told us that this year we entered a female journalist, Qian Qian.

Listen, this name is very exciting.

The coming of Qian Qian has really made our four male reporters have their own expectations.

The garbage on the desk was finally cleared, and several bottles of hydroponic greenery were added.

Qian Qian finally came, but it was not a lady in the imagination at all. It was also the right girl who came to this news department, a pair of jeans, a pair of sports shoes and a pair of exaggerated glasses, which is the image of Miss Qian.

Although Qian Qian is not a lady, but the level of the French is not bad at all. It has caused four male reporters to do nothing.

"Xiao Li elder brother", she always calls me like this. Although this sweet name is called "kill trick" behind me, I always respond to it. This elder brother always takes the first place.

As a result, the practice of "experienced" newcomers in this department stopped and turned into "training" new people.

The difference is that the former often arranges heavy work and hard work, and the latter is easy and practical work.

        在工作上占盡了便宜的芊芊，生活中也不肯吃虧，比如，以稿子被斃掉為由讓我請客吃飯，大大稱贊我拍的照片之后，拉我去當她的私人攝影師等等。哎，女孩因為可愛而美麗，她的到來確實活躍了氣氛，也提高了工作效率。