How To Deal With "Savage Colleagues"?

　你的公司里有沒有這樣一種人：你不見得跟他有什么利害沖突，可是他就是對你惡言相向；或者他就愛欺負新人，你剛進公司的時候，受盡了他的擠兌；或者他很計較，萬一你們之間有了競爭，那你就休想安生過日子，他會想盡一切方法，不達目的誓不罷休，即便兩敗俱傷也在所不惜……

Although they will not add to your fist, we still call them "savage colleagues".

Relatively simple physical confrontation, they are mentally "savages".

Everyone told you to ignore him, but you can't see your head in an office. You still have to contact him. How can you deal with it?

     “個性”過頭

Mr. Qin, advertising agency, media buying

The company came to a new colleague called Jenny. He smoked and drank all kinds of things. He could not speak without a word. He caught who called "honey". When he talked about Huang Duzi to shoot the table and beat his thigh, his male colleagues were all speechless.

The girls in the advertising company are too many and too soft. The appearance of Jenny is very popular. She also likes to show her masculine side. She says she saw a thief in the car and kicked him off. When he was in high school, the teacher sent a girl who had made a mistake to the classroom outside. She stood up to let the teacher go out first; in the former company, behind a colleague's little tricks, she knew that after a slap in the face, the man never dared to provoke her.

But after a few weeks, Jenny's generosity began to bore.

When she smokes and smokes, she smokes cigarettes directly to her colleagues. When she talks with customers, she is not satisfied with the "national curse", and chews when she eats.

Gradually, everyone began to avoid her.

But at last there was an accident.

One day, a male colleague in the company who was not very good at speaking asked someone for professional English plation. He was afraid to forget it. He mumbled all day long, and Jenny was tired of hearing it. Suddenly he rushed to the table: "you speak English, shut up and laugh!"

Originally, this sentence can be understood as a joke, but the tone of Jenny is too tough. It happened that the male colleague was a little sensitive to inferiority. So he gave Jenny a slap in the face.

We were all shocked. Jenny was very angry and looked around, thinking that everyone would help her rebuke the male colleague. But it turned out that there was no response from the people around him. Jenny felt that the insults were more than one layer and he resigned that day.

Later, we all said that girls with a little personality are lovable, but barbarism should always have a yardstick.

Perhaps a good yardstick is only available in TV dramas.

"Spring green" will also revolt.

Edward logistics company finance

There is a boy in our company who is very expensive. He comes from a high-class family. He looks handsome and his boss likes him. So he is quite proud of himself. He seldom speaks of other people's feelings.

On one occasion, he took a poem called "Li Bai". In a very sincere tone, he asked a girl to read it to you. The girl was very flattered and read it word by word: "the plum flower also smelled flowers, and the quality made it swollen."

The colleagues in the office laughed as if they had seen a dialect performance, and then "Da Chun Lu" became the handle of the poor girl colleague.

"Da Chun green" has never spoken to you again. Even if the work is needed, it is only a E mail, which is concise and comprehensive.

You think she is too mean and unhappy.

On one occasion, the girl received a phone call from a client and turned to his extension.

Who knows that customer is consulting some business problems, while Guigang is pferred from the business department.

He made a point of saying: "all day long, you know that you can't turn the phone around. You don't want to pick up. Don't pick up your ears. Listen up."

The girl was angry: "you should pay attention to your words and focus on yourself."

Turn on one's heel.

On the second day, the girl didn't reset after using the photocopier, so you just printed something and said, "who, set the magnification ratio."

The girl quickly apologized: "Oh, I forgot to press RESET."

I didn't expect you to come up with a strange saying: "Oh, you know a few words in English and put on" foreign fart. "

The girl took a short look, and then followed his words and said, "are you playing the earth fart?"

My colleagues laughed, and your face looked ugly.

Later, he never dared to say anything disrespectful to the girl.

The girl later explained to her colleagues the reason why he dared to contradict the "red man": "in a room of a colleague, he is so rude to me, but I do not say a word, then everyone may accuse me with such disrespect."

I was hung up by my sister.

Staff of Muzi exhibition company

It was unprecedented in my company to improve my qualifications to the rank of a senior teacher, so when she congratulated me, I thought she was really happy for me.

I recommended her to the company, and I should be very proud of her promotion.

Who knows...

I worked overtime late that day, catching up with a client's booth design, printing out the pattern, I stuffed myself into the boss's office from the door and went home.

As a rule, I worked overtime on the first day. I didn't go to the company second days in the morning. I was sleeping late. The boss called and insisted that I forgot to give him the pattern the night before. "Even if the rats ate, they should leave some paper scraps."

No!

Fortunately, there is a backup in the computer. I hurried back to the company and printed a copy.

I went out to lunch at noon, and the security guard greeted me: "yesterday, I worked so late yesterday, so I came so early today?

More diligent than your sister! "

"Did she work overtime yesterday?"

Because they had separate design rooms, I didn't know that she had worked overtime the night before, but when I left, there were still lights.

Is it...

The idea was rejected by me at once.

There are second things that follow.

The client wants to set up the booth, because I designed it, so I am responsible for the arrangement, and the worker is looked for by his sister.

She has rich experience and knows which companies are doing well and charging at a low price.

The time for the exhibition is very short, but the workers always work hard, and there are several people asking for leave every day.

Finally, I got angry and asked them to work all night, and also to finish the booth in the deadline.

The worker was shocked when he heard the deadline. "The lady who came to us didn't say that time was so tight."

And we also explained that there were several other jobs to do at the same time, and she agreed.

No, when she talked with the client that day, she was also there. Is it really...

I didn't ask her to prove anything about the workers, but then the cleaning lady took a crumpled drawing and asked me if I wanted to throw it away. Each of our drawings was accompanied by the designer's name.

And that is the drawing that should be in the boss's office. It is said to have been found in the wastepaper basket of the design room of the sister's office.

    對付野蠻同事五“板斧”

Bullying: this kind of person may not be annoyed with you. They have a habit: all newcomers should be pushed aside to show their dominant position in this environment.

Once the time is long and you are fully integrated into the circle, they will shift their targets to run the new people.

This kind of person is not a real villain. If they are not too overly aggressive, there is no need to pay attention to it. But when appropriate, you can also fight back because they are generally bullying and cowardly.

Yes or No: people who are right or wrong are most interested in hearing other people's privacy. They delight in making and spreading rumors.

The right and wrong type of people are only small people at best, so they need not be treated as enemies.

The best way to deal with such people is to stay away from them.

For the general rumor, remember that "those who are clear and the turbidness are self - turbid"; for excessive rumors, the rumor can be brought to the "public hall".

Weird: they may not be malicious, they are just very difficult to get along with, weird and eccentric, and you can't understand them in the normal way of thinking.

If there is any contradiction with them, we must argue with them about the matter. Don't make any mistakes. This may irritate them.

Belittle others: this kind of person should appear superior to others. He must interrupt every word you say, and he will prove that he knows more about everything than you do.

The reason for this is that they have unresolved vanity or concealed inferiority.

    他們實在是不值得你生氣。

Villain type: This is the most dangerous kind of person, because they may have a beautiful package.

They seem so goodwill, so sincere and caring for you.

Once you are in conflict with his interests, he will step on your feet fiercely. Sometimes they even "harm others and do nothing to themselves".

    最好的辦法是盡量避開，就算他來籠絡，也不要加入他的圈子；當他開始使壞時，要么就“先下手為強”，向上司披露他的劣跡，要么就走人。