The Evolution Of Family Entrepreneurship To Family Business

Rule 1: things are not as bad as you think. They will look better tomorrow morning.

If there is one thing for all family business owners, especially those who do business through the Internet, it is sometimes that you feel that you have worked hard there, but you have not achieved any goals.

Some people give up business when they are near the edge of success, and the number of these people is so great.

Rule 2: when you feel angry, overcome it as soon as possible.

I admit that this proposal is more extensive than the simple proposal of the home business, but it applies to your family business just as it applies to any other field.

Anger and resentment do not hurt anyone except the angry person. Have you noticed that when you are under the pressure of resentment or anger, how low is your work efficiency? So when you feel angry, let out a constructive way as soon as possible and move on.

It's like somebody said, "overcome it."

Rule 3: avoid linking your ego and position too closely, and when your position disappears, your ego will disappear.

In my career, I sometimes meet such people: their identity and self-worth are fully integrated into the work they live on, and they have no identity outside their work.

This is because their self-esteem and self-confidence need an external source. They think it is necessary to improve their personal status continuously and without hesitation, though in many cases, they need to sacrifice the interests of others, and often need to resort to some political tricks to maintain and enhance their so-called status.

These are the senior statesmen of the so-called "founder of the Empire" that you sometimes find in your organization.

They jealousy defend their rights foundation, and at the same time, they have too much responsibility for themselves, so that they exceed their ability.

Because their status and self-esteem depend entirely on their positions in the organization. What happens when they disappear due to reasons such as streamlining of their organization? Their status and self value will plummet.

Don't let these happen to you.

Remember that you are an individual who is relatively independent and different from your career.

Of course, you can be proud and happy about your achievements in business, but don't use these to define yourself.

Your self-worth comes from the human nature within you, not from your career.

Ironically, maintaining a proper separation of self-worth and occupation is more conducive to ensuring your eventual success in your career.

This moderate separation can bring you a deep insight into affairs, and look at the objectivity and clarity of affairs, which can help you make higher quality decisions.

Rule 4: everything can be done.

Don't allow yourself to impose your limitations on what you can do now and in the future. As long as you work hard, you can do anything. Of course, these things must be within your ability, for example, you can't imagine third arms.

But for those things that are within the limits of human power and ability, it is true that the saying "where there is a will, everything is done" is true.

Plan your life and think about the direction in which you want your life to go.

By setting goals and planning for those steps that can help you achieve your goals, you can achieve anything you really want in your heart.

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Rule 5: take your choice seriously, and you will probably get it.

If you think according to this idea, the goal you set is what you really want to get, which should be no doubt, because if you really follow the goal set principle, you will achieve your goal.

Rule 6: don't let bad factors prevent you from making a good decision.

Concentrate on your goals, and don't let things around you distract you.

Of course, if you know in advance that there are 1000 other people in the marathon, you may not participate, but does this mean that it is a bad thing to participate in the marathon? The answer is No.

When you make decisions, you need to think of high quality information as the basis for deciding what is best for your business interests.

If there are other competitors in your business, don't give up easily. If you do what you want to do, there will always be ways to create differences with your competitors.

Rule 7: you have no way to make decisions for others. You should not let others decide for you.

When you give up the safe and secure good job and choose to start your own business, your mother thinks you must be crazy.

Do not pay attention to these views and pursue your dreams instead of others.

Rule 8: check the small details carefully.

Like the printing problem of a contract, you need to pay attention to the web address of the sales letter you just wrote, such as your spelling and pronunciation problems.

In other words, you need to pay attention to details.

Rule 9: share honor with others.

You must have heard of the saying, "no man is an island", nor is there a woman.

Remember and acknowledge those who have been or continue to help you achieve the goals you want to achieve.

Acknowledge the achievements of others.

Rule 10: keep calm and be careful.

Rampage and recklessness will hardly boost your long-term success in business.

In the face of unexpected challenges, inexplicable low density in business or failure to achieve the desired results, you should realize that these are just part of a business life that is a blundering business. You should remain calm and use systematic analysis to deal with these problems.

Do not blindly react or give up all your efforts and try something completely different. Unless you have gone through a thorough, calm and careful investigation, make sure you are powerless.

Analyze your situation calmly and use your intelligence to correct it.

Sometimes, it is not necessary to turn the full rudder to get back to orbit, but only to adjust one angle.

Rule 11: identify a dream that you really want to achieve.

This rule is closely related to the fourth and fifth principles.

In order to set goals and determine the way to achieve them, you must first establish a dream.

You should be bold and courageous in your imagination. There is nothing that you can not achieve, so make sure your dreams are really worth your efforts.

Rule 12: do not think hard about fear or opposition.

When we embark on a journey to an unknown destination, all of us will feel self doubt and even fear.

If you are feeling anxious, nervous or even afraid of what you plan for yourself, you should pay attention to these feelings, but don't think hard about them.

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This feeling is a sign of great thinking and beyond your comfort zone.

As the book says: fear and overcome them anyway.

Rule 13: Eternal Optimism is a dynamic booster.

This rule and rule 1 are closely related.

You have to believe that "things will be resolved, things will look better tomorrow morning, everything will be better". Like incantation, repeat these words to yourself repeatedly, if you have to.

Slowly instilling this indomitable optimism into your outlook on life, you will have more success in your life.

Rule 14: sometimes responsibility means alienating certain people.

You can't always satisfy everyone, so don't waste your time and energy, or even try it in this regard.

You are responsible for your ultimate success in business and your success in life.

If you are loyal to your goals, sometimes you have to say no to some people, so do that.

If you have to alienate some people, because they simply do not approve of what you are doing, that is their problem.

In other words, stick to your goal, and if others do not like it or do not recognize it, these people will be too bad.

Rule 15: unless you try hard, you will never know how far you can go.

If you do not ask, you will not gain.

And if you do not take it away, you will not gain anything.

Do not leave anything on the table. If there is a chance, seize it immediately. Chances are unlikely to happen again.

And remember that chaos is a hidden opportunity. When everyone else is in a mess like a chicken without a head, you just have to go behind the scenes and then sweep away the opportunities lying there waiting for others to make use of them.