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Skills And Methods Of Identifying "Noble" And "Villain"

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Man is a social animal, unable to live away from society, especially in the society.

Workplace

On the other hand, it is more difficult to avoid interacting with many people.

But everyone has his own unique ideas.

At this time, if we insist on our own thinking and unable to communicate well with others, there will be contradictions in the relationship and communication between people, and there will be many obstacles in our work.

At this time, people tend to blame the environment, sorry for themselves, and feel sorry for all their problems.

In order to cope with these unpleasantness, we should learn all kinds of bad means to manipulate and revenge others.

At this time, people regard others as their own "

Villain

"But they have become" villains "in others' eyes.

In any case, if we always think that the plight of life is not our own fault, but others add to ourselves, it will be very unhappy and full of powerlessness.

Because often unable to solve the current predicament, they naturally can not exert their potential, so that they have to live a life of their own will.

Because as long as people are stuck by emotion, it is difficult to use their wisdom correctly to see clearly any problems.

But although we can not see the crux of the problem, in order to survive, we have to find justification for ourselves and justify our actions with rationalized excuses.

Such people live in "self defense" and live in hostility and dissatisfaction.

Therefore, it is always hard to tolerate other people's weaknesses, so it is easy to become self righteous characters and create imperfect interpersonal relationships.

Recommendation: "if you can truly experience your inner reality, know yourself well and face yourself honestly, you will feel no sense of helplessness or blame others. Facing yourself is the source of your sense of security.

When we feel the sense of security in life, we have the ability to appreciate and understand the differences of others.

There is no need to get a sense of security by controlling others.

Instead, we can communicate with others in a tolerant and joyful way, and be more capable of helping others and becoming other people's best people.

Magnate

"To pay for emotion is joy and nature, and at the same time likes to accept other people's feelings.

You can appreciate your achievements and support and praise others' achievements.

"Noble people" have passion for life, and they can enjoy work and other aspects of life at the same time, and attract people who appreciate and help themselves.