Strategy: Dealing With The "Black" Mood Of Hot Bosses

　　 Among the celebrities in the business world, many are famous hot tempers. It is common to clap tables with their subordinates. Even the vice general who runs with them will be scolded. Boss When faced with pressure and challenges, it is easier to vent anger, anxiety, depression and other "black" emotions on subordinates, if you understand interpretation, analysis and self remission. Art It can better handle the relationship with the boss, or perhaps the business will go up to a higher level.

"Black" Emotional one Anger

When Chu flute did not enter the boss's office, he heard the boss roaring in the room: "what are you guys doing? What are you doing? It's a mess!" Chu flute carefully knocked on the boss's door. After a while, he heard the boss loudly say, "come in!" Chu flute went into the boss's room and saw several colleagues standing in frustration. Seeing Zhu flute, the boss was still not good at it: "Why are you here now? You can go!" several colleagues hurriedly left the room. According to her experience, the boss summoned this time was very dangerous. Sure enough, the boss came up with the plan that he handed out yesterday, and dropped it on the table. "What is this thing you wrote? Even the basic situation of the customer is not clear! Is this place, this place? Is that right?"? She didn't know how long the boss had trained, until she heard the boss say, "go out!" she just trotted back to the office. Extended reading: get to know your boss from face to face with the growling boss.

Back to his seat, Chu flute was very much in the mood. Her plan was written on Monday when he met at the boss's request, but now he is so picky. How did the boss disregard herself as a girl? She didn't leave her face like this. The more she thought about it, the more uncomfortable it was. For a few days, Zhu Di was despondent at the boss's black mood.

Angry reading: in psychology, anger is often the embodiment of inner strength. Bosses are generally powerful people, so they can be independent, so they are generally stronger, stronger and unquestionable. When they encounter setbacks, they will be shown in a more extreme way. Anger is actually a force to change a situation that we can not accept.

Analysis of the boss: Zhu Di, under the anger of his boss, regarded his anger as pointing at himself. In fact, Chu flute is just an object for the boss to vent his anger. The boss may have encountered some pressure outside, or there may be some problems in dealing with family relations. In short, don't think that the boss's mood is caused by yourself, because you may not be so important to the boss. Bosses can't get angry with customers or get angry in the streets. The company is the safe area under his control, so he is most likely to choose this safety zone to vent his emotions.

Tips for self remission:

1. learn to watch your words. When you find that the boss is already angry, avoid the limelight as long as you don't have to find him. Maybe tomorrow he will return to normal.

2. if you happen to be the boss's vent, do not contradict and argue when he is angry. The more explanation it is, the easier it will trigger his anger.

30 million don't think the boss will be fired if he gets angry. If everyone resigns after being scolded by the boss, the company may not have many people.

Black mood two: Anxiety

June found that the boss was always a little flustered and anxious lately. The original company's competitors have been digging the company's walls recently, trying to pull away the core customers of the company. The company is doing business, not having its own factory, relying on the friendship with foreign and domestic factories for many years. But the company has a strong competitor. The boss seems to have had a bad time with his boss years ago. He has been in a vicious competition with the company these years, and now he is openly promoting the company's customers and declaring war against the company.

The boss's character is not firm enough to be in anxiety when faced with pressure. For example, this time, the other side just started to win over the company's customers, and failed, but the boss began to feel a little worried. In his nervousness, the company is also enveloped in an atmosphere of anxiety. Extended reading: which five types of bosses should take the initiative to "stir" the suffering of Chinese bosses?

Anxiety interpretation: anxiety is often a manifestation of lack of self-confidence. Because of lack of self-confidence, you will worry about situations that you can't control yourself.

Analysis of the boss: in fact, people often worry about things will never come, anxiety does not mean that there will be bad things happen. Anxious bosses tend to be weak in character and lack of self-confidence. Anxiety is a stress reaction when he is faced with great pressure. When the boss is worried, he says that he is under great pressure. At this time, you should support him as a subordinate, and not be influenced by his influence. You should not give up before the final result.

Tips for self remission:

1. I told myself that many people were worried about earthquakes, tsunamis, and the doomsday prophecies, but we are still living safely. It can be seen that anxiety is not always achieved.

2. anxiety is often caused by self confidence, so remind yourself often to maintain self-confidence.

3. even if something really happens, what will happen? Think of the way out for yourself.

4. look at disabled people, laid-off workers, they can live happily, so can you.

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Three of "black" mood: Depression

Ever since his boss came back from a business trip in Tokyo, Kath found his boss in a very depressed mood. As an assistant, Kath did not dare to ask her boss anything. She could only work more carefully and arrange everything for her boss. After a few days, the situation did not improve. Other employees in the company also noticed the boss's mood and did not dare to speak loudly in the office. The atmosphere of the company became more and more depressed. Interesting reading: the boss is angry and the whole company is discouraged.

Kath thought it was not a way to go on like this, so she stayed with her boss for a reason on the day before class, and then asked the boss to chat with him in the coffee shop of the building. In a relaxed atmosphere, she began to talk about her boss's trip to Tokyo. The boss finally told her the reason for her recent abnormal mood.

The boss had a senior teacher. He was a good example. His brother was successful in his studies. After graduation, he succeeded in starting his own career and married the school flower as his wife. 8 years ago, brother took the Entrepreneurial Capital and went to Japan to reunite with his wife studying in Japan. This time, when I arrived in Tokyo, the boss saw my brother, but he had changed beyond recognition. When his brother arrived in Japan, his wife betrayed him. He had no choice but to live in Japan. He lived in poverty in Tokyo. When the boss saw him, he told the boss that he was late stage of liver cancer, and only asked the boss not to tell his parents in their own situation. Skills: appreciate and praise your boss.

The boss has always wanted to expand the company's business to Tokyo, which is also influenced by the brilliant image of his senior brother. But I had no idea that my model for years was so unbearable that when the boss came back, he was in a state of depression.

Kath understood the boss's feelings very well, but Kath told his boss that the frustration of the boss has spread to the whole company. If we do not adjust it again, the morale of the company will be greatly affected, and we have always trusted the boss and believe that the company's performance will thrive. The boss woke up and promised Kath to cheer up from the second day. Tips: you should give your boss a good cheer.

Despondent interpretation: depression is a mechanism of self protection when people are under pressure, often arising from unhappy life. Its performance is negative pessimism, depression is different from anxiety. It is not a long-term or stable reflection of a person's character, but only when faced with some special pressure.

Analysis of the boss: the boss is also a person, there will be a fragile time, when he encountered some unpleasant things, it will also produce depression. When he indulged in this emotion for too long, he might as well learn Kath's practice, understand his reasons and help him get out of this bad mood.

Tips for self remission:

1. when the boss gets into a depression, it often prompts the boss to have problems with his personal situation, such as being hit and frustrated.

2. usually people's depression is self pacified. Don't disturb him when his boss is depressed.

3. if the boss's frustration lasts too long, it has already affected the morale of the company. You or your boss should care about him and find out what the problem is.

4. tell your boss that you will support him and help him tide over the difficulties.