The Most Taboo In The Office

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It is good to be strict with yourself in your work, but if you have too many arguments with your colleagues, you will be the way to success.

Paying attention to working relationships does not mean that you have to work hard with the whole office.

But generally speaking, good interpersonal relationships can no doubt make the work go smoothly and make your efforts twice the result with half the effort.

So no one wants to be unrelated.

Office hate insect number one

Liar

Some small jokes in the workplace are harmless, but watch out for them to develop into awful gossip and even rumors of hurting people.

A lot of people who do not know how to think carefully and speak later become unaware of all kinds of rumors.

A reporter of mine always has nothing to do with my desk and talk about the sex scandal of the editor in chief. You think, such a sensitive place, such a sensitive topic, I really don't know what to do.

Jing Yi, a 29 year old journalist, complained that her source was reliable. She never cared about my interest in her inside story.

If you are extremely keen on spreading some low-level gossip, at least you should not expect others to be equally keen on listening.

Sooner or later, those colleagues who are different from each other will not be afraid of you.

Even if you use all kinds of grapevine news to become the red man in the tea room for a time, no one will ever be sincere about a mouthing talker.

Rescue plan

Learn to be secretive - especially on topics related to the private life of your colleagues.

Remember, dripping can wear stones. At the critical moment, you will realize how valuable your colleagues' trust is.

Office bug second

Seeding agent

Grumbled and angry, these are the most striking characteristics of the sowing people.

Despite the fact that occasionally some sincere complaints can build up an illusion of office friendships, endless complaints can make people miserable around you - you have cloned your own depression and imposed it on innocent people in an unconscious way.

A project manager in the same department as long as I was in the office, we could not escape the psychological torture that lasted for several hours.

At the age of 24, Dai Fei is the client director of a company. It is obviously something that has nothing to do with her, but under her continuous bombing, we have to try our best to get rid of her infectious negative emotions.

Perhaps you regard complaint as a way of openness, but the end of litigation will rise to anger.

People will wonder if you are so dissatisfied with the status quo, why don't you just change your environment and go away.

Rescue plan

How to hate in the heart is higher than the sky. You must also remember a motto: silence is golden.

If you have made an impression of "office worm", it is hard to get any response from colleagues no matter what you say.

In the future, if there is another full of grievances waiting to vent, try to take all the unpleasant words and send it to a friend with no working relationship in the form of E-MAIL, and she will solve the problem for you.

The main advantage of this is that your resentment has been unwittingly released in a most low-key way.

Office bug third

groveler

When someone asks you about your situation, you can habitually answer: not very good.

Well, listen to me.

If you talk about trauma and pain in your life, can you really get rid of it? Please note that a poor person is usually a lonely person, because no one wants to associate with the mentally weak.

A female colleague sitting next to me had a piece of leather on her leg. I didn't dare to ask her what was going on. Shu Meng, a 26 year old marketing assistant, said, "I know that as long as she asks for a question, she will talk about personal medical insurance from traffic condition. It will not be finished in half an hour.

I believe that your original intention is not to get sympathy from others, because compassion and respect are not compatible with certain things, and it is hard to make the best of both worlds.

Besides, if others feel that you even mess up your own life, how can you work well?

Rescue plan

When you put away those sad stories, Xiang Linsao is still unpopular in the old society. What's more, instead of pouring down your own troubles, we should be concerned about the current situation of our colleagues and help them in time.

Office bug fourth

Expensive people

This person does not pay much attention to the interaction with subordinates or even their colleagues at the same level, and is always waiting for opportunities to catch up with others and make them go all the way to heaven.

It is a universal mentality that people go up high, but if they do too much, the nickname of flatterer is afraid to escape.

Several colleagues in our department have been working together on the same table for lunch. Every time a Meggie, she always sits alone in a corner.

Meggie, a 25 year old executive secretary of foreign enterprises, said that one day, the vice president of the company came to the restaurant to have dinner with us. We had a sharp eye and flew to our side.

Disgusting!

Rescue plan

All colleagues should be treated equally - including those who work from the bottom floor - with sincere respect and appreciation for them.

As the saying goes, "no real face."

You can never predict that behind those silent little people, there will be no big people backing up, or they will never have any influence on the big ones.

Besides, if your boss feels that you are making enemies everywhere, this impression will do you no good even if you don't like your company in the company.

Ji Ru, a 27 year old public relations assistant, learned this truth through painful lessons.

There was a new colleague in the office who was extremely incompetent in the eyes of Ji Ru. Ji Ru naturally went far and wide. But in the end, he found out that the man was the niece of the general manager. How could I imagine that she was the informant who was placed in the company by the boss. Ji Ru regretted that she did not speak less of me, or how I would stay in the assistant's seat for more than 2 years.

Office bug fifth

A man who makes his way

The motto of this man is that wine is afraid of alley.

Relying on your own beauty, you will lose no time in giving full play to the charm of women in front of your male colleagues, and at the same time become the jokes and eyesore of women's colleagues.

Hui Xin, a 28 year old advertising agency, said that her fate was nowhere to go, and the office staff almost ignored her.

Even if your fox behavior really attracts some men, don't forget that more people are simply indifferent.

I used to have a colleague who liked to attract men with a looming Garter, but she didn't know that men and women in the office laughed at her! The 25 year old beauty consultant was especially good at it.

Rescue plan

In fact, in the case of business, you can fully display the sensuous and charming side, and do not need to try to reverse the image of the beauty of all living beauty - so easy to do it.

Only when you have intimate relationship with the opposite sex, will it be reasonable to discharge frequently to the other side.

In general, colleagues will conclude that a person who only likes others pleasing others lacks practical working ability, which can definitely become a stumbling block to your career development.