Japanese Women Flaunt: Marry A Chinese Man.

Since the 90s of last century, there has been an increasing number of personnel exchanges between China and Japan, and the transnational marriages between the two countries are also increasing. According to statistics released by Japan's Ministry of health and labour, in recent years, tens of thousands of Chinese and Japanese men and women have been married each year. Chinese men are very popular with Japanese girls, and Chinese people have become "fragrant steamed bun". Why does marriage between China and Japan become a fashion? Why do Japanese girls put on a good domestic man instead of being married?

Shen Qiang, wife of Sasaki Yumiko, a Chinese painter and seal cutter in Japan, believes that Japanese girls are attracted to Chinese guys and are inseparable from the historical origins of Japan and China. Japan and China are close neighbors in history and culture. Japan is deeply influenced by Chinese culture and many things come from China. Many Japanese girls have a special liking for Chinese Confucian culture. They dream of finding a true Chinese gentleman. Choosing a Chinese husband is also reasonable.

In addition, China's economic take-off and the overseas broadcast of Kungfu films undoubtedly publicize Chinese men, and greatly enhance their popularity in women's minds. A single Russian popular song "marry a man like Putin" was borrowed by many Japanese girls and changed to "marry a man in China". Hard work, patience before marriage, unmarried marriage, no drinking, "family cooking", respecting the old and loving the young have become the "labels" of Chinese men. No wonder the Chinese guys are not only in Japan, but also in Russia, Vietnam, Africa and other countries.

　 Tired of men and women, and yearning for freedom in China.

Tired of the sexism of men and women in Japanese enterprises, a large number of white-collar women in Japan have come to China to open their careers and new life in China on the basis of their abilities and hard-working spirit.

Japan's Kyodo News reported that, in the developing international metropolis of Shanghai, a group of Japanese women came here to prove their abilities, laughing at risks and failures, with the gentle attitude and subtle feelings developed in Japan, and the communicative ability exercised in a foreign country.

"I don't want to go on like this." Nagashima Yoshie, 39 years old, who worked in a large Japanese motor factory, sprouted this idea 9 years ago. If she gets the recognition from her superiors, she will be jealous of her male colleagues. Holding on to the promising learning attitude of China, Long Island embarked on the road to study in Shanghai.

In China, Long Island first went to a language school for a year, then worked in a Japanese enterprise, then moved to a Taiwan consulting company. Although she is the only Japanese in the company, she is not only active in the front line of sales, but also bears the burden of connecting with China's political and economic circles. She said: "in Japan, I will never get this heavy responsibility." In order to further improve herself, she then transferred to a Japanese enterprise, and was promoted to the secretary general about a year later.

stay Shanghai There are many women like Long Island who leave Japan's domestic businesses to start from scratch. There are many reasons for them to make this choice: many enterprises in Japan still stick to the rules and do not regard women as fighting power; in the economic downturn, sex discrimination in recruitment is becoming more and more intense. Noguchi Sayoko, 28 years old, was in college. Shanghai So far, he has lived in Shanghai for about 10 years. When she talked about the difference between Japan and Japan, she said, "as long as a few people gather together, they will talk about their ideals."

{page_ Break}

Ooni Michiko, 29, said, "I feel I can accomplish anything." She worked in Shanghai for a few years and returned to Japan, but with the idea of "fighting hard once again", as a salesperson of Japanese enterprises, she arrived again at the beginning of this year. Shanghai 。 She believes that the social atmosphere of "striking people is not striking but learning" can help them grow.

　 Japanese women admire Chinese men and respect women.

Miss Yong Island, an announcer in Japanese TV station, married last year. China President of a listed media, she said: "I said all day in Taiwan that I hate Japanese men's petty feelings. I know there will be some so-called" patriots "who will accuse us of" eight karma "and even dishonor the dignity of Japanese men.

But as our women, we will always choose the strong and our husbands. Is the Japanese man who is on the losing track today a strong man? The population is only the same as a Chinese province, and the resources and territorial area are not much less than that of China. The national strength is now weaker than China. As for the Japanese men, they are hopeless generation, and their moral qualities are not comparable. Chinese men are tall. Can they give us women's happiness free living space like Chinese people? The answer is No.

Miss Fujiwara, a secretary to congressmen, has been to China many times, so she wants to marry a Chinese man.

She said: as Japanese men, they have no advantage. Because they are too masculine, they really take our women seriously, so we have to create new paths.

In my place, there are often girls' underwear stolen. The Japanese pornography industry is the world's attention. The Japanese pornography is the first, first of the world to mention Japanese women in a metamorphosis. People from other countries will think of AV actress. It's really shame for us to be Japanese women. Therefore, I do not want to find a Japanese man who is lustful and unreasonable. I have already made an appointment with my Chinese boyfriend on the Internet.

Miss Jin Cheng, a working woman from a Chinese hotel from Okinawa, said: "I am going to marry a Chinese man. I will only choose strong men!" Japanese men, these so-called "patriots", have nothing to do except to make a mess of their names on the Internet. You have done something to make their country better and let Japanese women no longer be spoiled by a certain army, so that the Japanese actress will not play the role of three. Japanese men don't have this ability! Japanese men are incompetent!

　 There are differences in traditional marriage between transnational marriages.

The survey shows that the Chinese bridegroom who marries Japanese girls nowadays is mostly Japanese masters who are proficient in Japanese. A Chinese graduate from a famous foreign language institution in China said that after several years of working in China, he resigned at his own expense to study in Japan, and then worked in a famous Japanese enterprise. 6 years ago, he held Japanese beauty.

When it comes to married life, he is filled with emotion and bitterness. He said that the Japanese wife was very traditional. He quit his job and became a homemaker at home. He never washed clothes and swept the floor once. However, there are many differences between the two people in terms of consumption concept and dealing with people. For example, the Japanese especially pay attention to "red tape", giving gifts at the middle and late years, but Chinese people advocate simple etiquette and emphasize the expression of their hearts. In addition, he hopes to save money to buy a house, but his wife does not like to live in a place for a lifetime. Although the wife is one of the Japanese people he knows most loves China, and the Chinese language level is also improving, sometimes, at home watching Chinese TV shows and meeting funny places, the wife is puzzled and has to explain to her for a long time and feel very tired.

It seems that China and Japan are close to each other, but Japanese wives and Chinese husbands are not isolated from their hearts. Let's listen to the voice of a Japanese girl who married a Chinese boy: "Chinese husband is very fond of me, he will help to do housework, and his temper is much more temperate than that of Japanese men, but there are many differences between me and his children in education. Japanese family education is to teach children etiquette and etiquette, which is very important. Children's leftovers seem to us to be very rude. But he didn't understand that I was too strict, and the children had no freedom at all. Japanese wife is very helpless.