Graduates Must See: Let'S Not Talk About These 11 Sentences.

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Especially in the workplace, there are 11 sentences that can not be said, because they will make you lose your dignity or reduce your professionalism and leave a bad impression on people.

Let's take a look at how professional experts interpret "/p".

< p > 1, "is that reasonable?" < /p >

< p > "before you give yourself time to understand, ask this question will only make the supervisor think you are not clear about the situation."

Tara Sophia Mohr, a career expert, suggests that in addition to the question of "reasonable", in fact, it can be changed to ask: "what are your thoughts?" < /p >

< p > 2, "this is not fair!" < /p >

< p > this sentence will not change the situation.

"No matter whether you are experiencing problems at work, what you should do is to avoid saying this, not to become a complaining party, but to actively solve the problem."

Author Darlene Price mentioned in his book "good speech, how to speak and dialogue to achieve results".

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< p > 3, "I have no time to do it."

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< p > "in most cases, we all have time."

Atle Skalleberg's posting on LinkedIn says that this sentence is usually suspect that you have not tried to squeeze time to do it or forget it at all.

But in any case, instead of spending time complaining, it's better to start scheduling time.

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< p > 4, "I am just..."

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< p > "I just want to see..."

Or "I just think..."

This sounds harmless, but it only makes your focus lose focus.

"Usually, we add" two "words to ease the tone of speech.

Mohr says, "but more or less, it makes the speaker sound a bit like complaining or feeling very uncertain about what he is saying."

Omitting these two words is more dignified.

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< p > 5, "but I sent e-mail a week ago."

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< p > < < a href= > http://sjfzxm.com//business/ > > if /a > no one has replied to you, you must confirm it again.

Skalleberg said.

In communication, we should be a positive party instead of turning the other person into a responsible person.

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< p > 6, "I hate it."

Or "...

It's really annoying. "

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< p > > a href= "http://sjfzxm.com//business/" > workplace < /a > no attack is needed, it is aimed at specific things.

Speaking this sentence will make you appear childish, and you need to be responsible for what you say, because this sentence is hurtful.

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< p > 7, "that's not my responsibility."

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< p > even if this is really not your job, you can still come forward and express your willingness to do more to help the whole team.

"As a whole, every one of us is responsible."

Skalleberg said.

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< p > 8, "you should first..."

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< p > "these deliberate words will only cause everyone to start accusing each other."

Price said.

She suggests that a more positive approach can be used in the same situation, such as: "later, I will suggest that we...

It's better. "

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< p > 9, "I may not be right, but..."

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< p > Price interpreted this as a "discount".

That is to say, adding "I may be wrong" in front of you will only make your next words less important.

Save unnecessary openers, so as to enhance the importance of arguments and not to reduce your majesty.

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< p > 10, "sorry, but..."

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The word "P" will make you unhappy.

Mohr recommends that there is no need to apologize for wanting to express opinions.

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< p > 11, "actually..."

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Carolyn Kopprasch, director of P Buffer, said, "in fact, that thing is there" or "in fact, you can do this" and so on. This kind of argument will increase the distance between you and the interlocutors, because to some extent, you are saying that they are wrong.

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< p >, therefore, enter the workplace, especially those who are inexperienced, be sure not to easily say the above words, otherwise, it will have a negative impact on your career.

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