Workplace Men And Women: Men And Women Should Get Along With Each Other.

Xiao Yang said that she had recently had some contradictions with a heterosexual colleague. As long as he was in front of her, she felt very annoying. She suspected that he was not in the right way with him, or he was too mean minded to make himself unhappy.

When I first entered the company, Xiao Li was like a big brother. I had nothing to understand at work. Once he was asked, he pointed out to me and gave me some solutions. This kind of thoughtfulness and help gave me a lot of encouragement. What difficulties do I have in my life? As soon as he hears, he will help me, and when I am sick, he will also ask me questions.

Originally, Xiao Li was so good to me that I should be grateful, but I was particularly disgusted with the fact that he always liked me in public, and sometimes even in public places he did something for me that only lovers could do. The office is a serious place. Colleagues see in their eyes, do not say anything on the lips, but secretly laugh, say we are a pair. I want to protest loudly, but I think he is really good to me. He can't get along with everyone. My heart is very contradictory.

At first I thought it would be over, but I could not bear to go on like this for a long time. He said he never expected me to say so. That night, I felt very sad and felt harsh.

After second days of work, he changed to me. Not only was his face cold and strange, but I felt old and careful. When he met later, he didn't even call. I volunteered to call him. It was a very close colleague. Now I feel so sad that the relationship is so stiff. Even more embarrassing to me is that he has always been very fond of other women's colleagues in front of me, which makes me feel sick and began to doubt his kindness to me.

I always feel that Colleague There can be a very close relationship of cooperation, but not necessarily to develop into a relationship of love. There are many ways for colleagues to get along with each other. But when interacting with people, they still have to pay attention to occasions and ways of conversation, and respect other people's feelings.

The ten major appearances of workplace men and women are ambiguous.

1, men take the initiative to help women in public places.

For example, when you see a woman talking to her acquaintance about something that is difficult to do, the man beside him takes the initiative to interpose, and he says he has something to do with, or is a way to know someone, or something special to solve a problem. In this case, we must be able to conclude that the relationship between men and women is not very close.

　　 Man The initiative to help women can be said to be acquaintances, also can be said to be unfamiliar, but there are a number of contacts, but men tend to curry favor. But what is certain is that the relationship between men and women is not very close. Because if it's a close relationship, women will definitely understand each other's situation and tell them in private.

2, a man often buys a breakfast for a woman, not for hospitality.

Men often buy Women breakfast, and women never buy them for men. Then the relationship between men and women is no longer just acquaintances. If men are not women's younger generation or younger generation, then there is bound to be another kind of invisible thing in balance. For example, men and women are ambiguous, and in this relationship, men are active while women are active. Psychology The relative dominant party.

3, men and women often stay together, but there are acquaintances in plain clothes.

This situation must indicate that men and women are already lovers, and they will not be normal lovers, but extramarital affairs. Because if you're a friend, you don't have to avoid people. If it's a normal couple, you don't have to pretend.

Strange. Only those who are extramarital affairs can not control their frequent meeting. But when they meet other acquaintances, they have to find out the reason and meet with outsiders. The two party should pretend to be very plain. It's just like that. Some men and women lovers do not shy away from specific occasions, such as in front of a few iron friends.

4, men and women are not husband and wife, but often angry.

Both men and women are angry and ignore each other. This not only shows that the relationship between men and women is deeper, but also shows that there has been a long emotional relationship between men and women. Men and women do not usually pass through their emotions at the beginning.

Often angry, both sides will care about the feelings of the other side, but when the feelings have a certain depth, one side has more to pay for the other side, and there will be more requests and requests, and there will be more capital for gambling. When the relationship becomes "chicken ribs", it will be easier to get angry.

5. women in public can freely say "men" in a lesson.

If women and men are not husband and wife, nor are they related to other relatives, but in public places, women can casually talk about men, while men show great magnanimity and impatience. that

It must be explained that two men and women went to bed early for some purpose. And going to bed is purposeful. If a man is a woman's top boss, a woman can rebuke her boss in turn. It must be that a man has disturbed the relationship between the upper and lower class in the bed and has made some promises.

6, women speak ill of men behind their backs, and about sex.

Women speak ill of men behind their backs and involve sexual privacy. It means that men have a holiday with women, or what men do on women. Or there has been an ambiguous relationship, but now the relationship has deteriorated.

7, women and men walk together in a big way and behave closer together.

If there is no kinship between men and women, in this case, the relationship between women and men is clear and the relationship between men and women is the most. In particular, men and women appreciate each other more speculators, but have not really started.

When you feel like a journey, it looks very intimate, but men and women get along well with each other. Between men and women, except for normal couples, they tend to get together before they get along. When they are really sticky together, they must take the initiative to separate in public.

8, women invite men to eat.

Women invite men to eat, either owes men, or appreciates men, or asks men. If there are all these reasons, it is more likely. If a woman asks a man to eat, but he is very polite, or always wants to please, it must be for others.

When men and women have no sexual relationship, women may invite men to eat for other reasons, but when women and men have gone to bed and have feelings, women may cook for men at home, and most of them will be men on the outside. If this kind of degree, the woman asks the man to eat, must be the simple meal, may speak temporarily, but the man has not brought the money.

9, women and men walk away from each other.

We think that if we do this two times at a time, maybe we will not bring these two people together. But this way of doing things before and after is much more repetitive. It can also show that the relationship between men and women is special, and it is necessary to guard against the cause of acquaintances.

10, men send roses to women in public.

Perhaps some people will think that this is the only thing that couples dare to do. In fact, this is not necessarily the case. It is very likely that men and women are open lovers. There are very few couples giving flowers to each other, and it is quite possible for men to start pursuing women. But after marriage, the odds are much less. Only when a man feels that he owes too much to a woman can he think of sending flowers. But for lovers, sending flowers is a kind of flattering and cheap.

If you do this two times at a time, maybe you will not bring these two people together. But this way of doing things before and after is much more repetitive. It can also show that the relationship between men and women is special, and it is necessary to guard against the cause of acquaintances.