Workplace Life: Single Love Songs For Work

Some time ago, a friend came over to chat with me and proposed to leave the present environment and set up a great company.

I support, ask, what kind of company do you want to make? He has a little creativity, brilliant ideas, but no business plan, but for the success of others as a mentor is very interested.

So it sounds like his business plan is to make a legend like Google first and then go out to share experiences with people every day.

I couldn't help asking him, and then he said, and then I had the chance to meet more girls and find my girlfriend.

Incidentally, he is a IT company's project development PM (Project Manager).

He wants to leave, and then start a business, then legend, and then share, touch more people, in fact, just want a woman.

What he said is the most direct way to him.

It's hard for outsiders to imagine that in some jobs, the opposite sex becomes a very important value in their work.

An online survey has no source, but it is also credible.

There are also 10 versions of the seven high tech careers with the highest number of single white collar workers.

What's interesting is that some of these editions have taken away the "consulting company", and some have changed the "IT industry" to "network company". In my view, they are all kinds of guilt in all walks of life.

There are several reasons why we are single.

No opportunity is the biggest injury. Consulting firms and accounting firms are generally not in Shanghai, Beijing, but in the two or three tier cities.

Consultants often stay there for half a year.

One of my friends is like this. When people are in the field, they watch "Kung Fu Panda 2" with their girlfriends, and then talk on the phone.

After talking about it for two weeks, girls can not stand it. What is the difference between this and online love?

If you think of online love, IT's children have an advantage over them. They spend twelve hours in a variety of technical forums every day, but the question is, where do they have their gentle and virtuous women?

The second possibility is career life, such as fashion designers or performing arts circles. Every day they look at beautiful models and paint in public. In the long run, persistence in normal sexual orientation requires perseverance.

For example, reporters, editors, lawyers, and all the people who have seen faces every day are also unnatural in their expectations for their other half.

In fact, they have unconsciously turned their careers into life.

Even if we put aside these two things, there are also many women in N who are in a crowd of brothers and blind dates.

Finding the other half is often like a psychological choice and game. Everyone wants to find something better, better and better, but not consciously. In the long time of choosing, his "price" is constantly changing, forming a dynamic balance.

Whether or not it is right, you have to admit that today many boys choose their spouse. Age and appearance are one of the important points, while girls' educational background and position are higher and higher.

At this time, with the increasing expectations of age and the decreasing price of age, there will be a junction. Before the intersection, the choice will be very easy and sweet, but after the intersection, the expectation will be farther away from the price. You will feel strongly that it is not as good as it used to be.

This resulted in the appearance of a large number of saints.

Of course, women who are really trapped by this problem will dismiss this view. How can classical NEMA make love so great and perfect? Only the East Korean drama shows a picture to analyze it. I will persist until I am the most suitable person.

You see, this is the reason why they are alone.

Finally, apart from letting your employees and colleagues leave, create legends, and find girlfriends at legends, what else can be done to reduce your single love songs?

1. give them more space and push them into places where girls can be found.

At present, all kinds of dating websites are very dangerous. They push you directly to marriage, and all kinds of activities websites are full of words, such as spring boys, sending your honest male workers inside, obviously not a good idea.

They will be more self assured by those boys.

My advice is to take part in more technical skills, but not very technical training is a good idea. To join some volunteers, NGO is also good, where men of science are careful thinking, easy to fix small machinery, and then add a little bit of love, so that they will be able to beat a girl.

2. stop the generalization of career.

Be alert to the generalization of your career and draw a boundary between your career and your life.

You know, the cat captain took off his uniform. It was a cat.

3. adjust the scissors difference: the point of scissors difference is not going away, you have two strategies, the first is to accept reality, reduce expectations, second is to further improve their own value, internal quality, and beauty (or make-up technology).

So you can bring up the price line very quickly, and you will have another new intersection.

Perfectionist single girls! May you meet that intersection again.