How To Overcome Workplace Demons Is Crucial

People in this world will do a lot of things against their wishes.

And most of the time, we are unconsciously adapted to the requirements of others, do what we do not like, and live in an abhorrent environment, doing things like "people in rivers and lakes, involuntarily".

If such bad melancholy comes, you can.

If we control it, we can still free ourselves from psychological constraints.

Perfectionist captives

Typical language: "do not know what others will think, is that ok?"

The experience of Joey, a 29 year old service manager, is that when she first prepares to make a public presentation, she always thinks of the smallest plot repeatedly, such as how his image, pronunciation, pronunciation and intonation will give other people's visual appreciation whether he has remembered the operation of Power Point for several days, and whether he will stumble at the foot of the stage.

The ending is also imaginable. Joey did not sleep the night before the public presentation, because she thought the problem too complicated, and the performance scene was too concerned about the reaction of others. There was a slight disturbance on the stage, and he was very nervous and unprepared.

Comment: in fact, many people are like this. We always think that we can make our work more perfect if we think of problems or difficulties as much as possible, but the fact is not the case, and mind what others think of it is more often seen in immature people.

"If I talk more, people will think I love the limelight", "I do that, others will laugh at me."

This idea of striving for perfection makes it a prisoner of others' thinking.

Most people will listen to the advice of unqualified people, or even seriously affect their creativity.

A fatalistic prisoner

Typical language: "I am not old at this age, or safe."

Yan Qing Sheng, a 30 year old head of personnel, returned to the unit in time, because he chose it.

And she can not accompany her baby at home.

Every day, work is often distracted. At last, because of a loss of personnel files, I was reprimanded by my superiors for "aged women's memory."

Before, she was very enthusiastic about work and had the trait of being workaholic, but now she is always worried about her child's condition. She thinks she will suffer if she does not accompany her at home.

So Yan Qing was caught in a dilemma between her family and her family. She did not quit her job entirely, nor did she take full consideration of her family affairs. Anyway, she was in a state of resignation.

Psychological comment: this kind of psychological devil usually thinks that he should do something at a certain age, he would miss a good opportunity, and now he is too lazy to struggle.

For example, some think that 26 years old are too old to go to university for further education; others think they are 40 years old and can no longer get married.

In fact, risk is an objective existence. Human survival and development is a process of continuous struggle and continuous elimination of insecurity.