The Secret Of Strength Is Confidence.

I envy big stars. Their legs are long, their faces are beautiful, their smiles melt, and it is strange that they do not envy. But what I envy most is their confidence. Even I sometimes think that fans do not support idols because of their appearance or acting skills. They worship them before standing in front of the screen and still show everything in their grasp.

I want to be confident. With the increase of age, the priority of this wish is higher than that of wanting to grow taller. But at the same time, I am more aware of its difficulty. It's very hard! Every day we encounter various challenges in our daily life. The unreasonable demands of the clients, the boss's eyes show, "I believe you have given such an important task to you," and always work like a red light.

Before sending E-mail, we were sure that there was no problem. In the bath, we forgot to bring the cell phone to the bathroom. The pressure of work is so great that every morning when we take the MRT, we sweat our friends in the group of LINE. We can't sleep and sleep comfortingly.

When you push yourself to the limit, how can you not doubt your ability or knowledge?

I think people can't show confidence when they are faced with things that can not be dealt with by their ability. And we do not do this to show confidence. At this time, we actually expect ourselves to grow up after challenge, even if we fail, as long as we know how to reflect, we can turn into nourishment for growth.

Self confidence is a response when dealing with good things, like being asked "1 and 10 which is big". Pupils can also respond calmly. But if asked, "is it possible that infinity is greater than infinity?" because we do not know the correct answer, our eyes will begin to flicker and lose the shine of self-confidence.

According to this logic, self-confidence It seems to be mutually exclusive with growth.

If you want to grow up, you have to be attacked from time to time. If you want to show your confidence, you will have to keep your shirt on to the first grid in every office. You can sit in the dark corner and move towards the new old man who is pointing fingers. Although life can not have everything, but even the two have to choose one, old and innocent.

Perhaps we can use mathematical examples to illustrate that everyone should agree that mathematics is a very precise knowledge. 1+1=2, we won't say "1+1..." Well, today I want to save a little, almost 1.8. " Without such a thing, mathematics will not allow such imprecise things to happen. However, are there many inaccurate or complex things in the world that can not be accurately described? Can we still use mathematics when we encounter such things?

Yes, in mathematics language, even if you can't get the "exact answer", it will "tell you exactly how much error". Even errors that cannot be accurately described must be accurately described. That's the real meaning of mathematical accuracy.

By analogy, true self-confidence should be the same. We can't do anything. So if we want to have self-confidence all the time, we can not only have confidence in what we can do - even if we can't do it, we can do it with ease.

Why are people equally anxious to bite fingers when they wait for the results to be released? Can anyone laugh at them whether they succeed or fail?

I think the key is to accept failure ahead of schedule. This time the world cup Brazil to Germany, the strength gap between the two sides is not the final score so big, but because of a few critical moments, Brazil team has even thought of their own mistakes, repeatedly hit, even the original performance can not get out, lost calm.

Any time, Chill They are all the most important abilities. We can look down on the situation like an eagle, and be able to grasp and accept without any emotion. Many undesirable teams win the game because their stars have excellent psychological qualities, do not lose their performance due to pressure, and do not see 1% of their chances as 0% and do not try to compete.

Confidence is a recursive equation of "the first outcome will become the next input". The stronger the confidence, the easier it is impossible to be possible. Such success can further enhance confidence and form a positive cycle. On the contrary, when confidence is insufficient, things that can be done smoothly will also run aground. negative The cycle will destroy anyone without mercy.