Interpersonal Communication And Etiquette Are Very Important In Today'S Society.

The topic is the center of conversation.

The choice of topic reflects the level of the speaker's taste.

Choosing a good topic can make both sides of the conversation find a common language, which often indicates that the conversation has been more than half successful.

The standard of good topic is: at least one party is familiar and able to talk, everyone is interested in talking, and there is room for discussion.

Successful conversation depends on the choice of topics, proper topic selection and smooth conversation.

To make conversation successful, we must find topics that are of common interest to both sides, and not just start with our own interests, but also start from the interest of the other side.

For example, you have a liking for football, while the other side loves photography. When you don't talk about football matches, you should take photography as a topic.

If you know a little about photography, you must be able to speculate. If you are not familiar with it, it is also a learning opportunity. You can listen attentively and ask questions at the right time, so as to increase your knowledge and broaden your horizon.

One topic is to let the other side feel.

Conversation is possible.

For example, a reporter interview, if you can find each other's topic of interest as a breakthrough point, it is easier to achieve the desired purpose.

When Huang Zongying interviewed Zeng min, a citrus expert, he encountered such a situation. He did not talk to Mr. Tsang for a long time after talking about it for a long time. Later, she began to talk about the citrus from which the expert was most interested: "how did you find several wild oranges found in 1962 years old? What's the characteristic of the cane cutting method you created?" when Ceng Min heard this, his face immediately turned red: "Oh, do you know orange?" the two sides had a common topic at once, and soon they were very speculative.

Because the topic of interest is often the most familiar, the most spoken and the most pleasant topic to talk about.

Therefore, choosing topics should vary from person to person.

In addition to paying attention to choosing topics, you should learn to ask questions in a timely manner.

Asking questions can guide conversations to the desired purpose and adjust the atmosphere of conversation.

Because people's knowledge level is different and their social environment is different, we must observe carefully and understand each other's identity so as to make the questions raised appropriately and unabruptly.

Subtle questions enable you to get the information, knowledge and interests you need, and to prove that you value your partner's conversation and arouse your interest and provide you with more information.

One of the most taboo words in conversation is that one side keeps on talking, preaching, showing off and showing off.

When you talk, you should pay attention to being polite to others in an equal manner. You should try to make everyone here have the opportunity to participate in the conversation. This is a kind of understanding and respect for people.

Because no matter how well the person's status and personality are, he hopes others will not ignore him.

As the saying goes, "say three points and listen to seven points."

There is a Western proverb: "God gives a person a mouth and two ears, so that you can speak less and listen more."

We can see the importance of listening in oral communication.

A good speaker should also be a good listener.

Because only by listening can we truly speak. Only when we listen, can we truly understand each other and facilitate effective communication.

In conversation, take full attention to each other

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When you listen to the other person, you should always look at the other person in a friendly way, and express your devotion and attention with your eyes and expressions. Concentrate on your attention and concentrate on your listening. Do not interrupt the conversation at will.

In this way, the other person will feel respected and think you are interested in his words, and he will also feel good about you.

Sometimes, some of the topics that the other person is talking about is very familiar to you. For courtesy, be patient and not impatient.

Sometimes you are totally unfamiliar with the topic of the conversation, and it is hard to hear the interest. But respecting the other side, you should also listen attentively.

In other words, you should know more about what the other person is talking about, and you can not break it in. You should listen to the other's words with an open mind and add or correct it in a euphemistic way.

Listening to people can not just be passive acceptance, listeners should carefully feel each other's feelings, in a timely manner to make a positive response, in order to encourage the interest of the other party continue to talk.

When speaking, you can use voice language like endorsing, rehearsing other words, short comments, questions, etc., for example, "you are right", "yes", "I feel the same way", "you are too interesting" and so on, and you can also use a nod, smile and other posture language to indicate.

The purpose is to show that if you listen attentively and think positively, the other person will be encouraged to improve your interest in speaking. This will keep the conversation going on happily and get more information from you.

Listening is quicker than speaking, and there is always some time gap in the process of obedience. A person who listens attentively and listens attentively will use these gaps to ponder secretly, aftertaste the content of the other's speech, analyze, generalize and generalize, clarify the center, and grasp the main points.

Generally speaking, the speaker is direct in conversation, and his intention and connotation are easy to understand and grasp.

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For a variety of reasons, sometimes the other side's meaning is expressed through euphemistic or evasive words.

The hidden meaning which is not known is the meaning of what is usually said. Listeners must pay attention to the tone, tone, diction, manner and background of conversation, and carefully understand each other's subconscious meaning, so as to truly understand the intention and hidden meaning of the other side's speech, so as to make correct judgments and responses, so as to enhance the communication and effect between the two sides.