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A Good Way To Deal With A Coworker In A Small Report

2008/12/13 16:37:00 41913

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"Small report" refers to an improper reporting behavior, or improper content, or improper motives, or improper means, or both.

Small report

"Ancient times, but at that time did not have this name, people generally used to call it" entering slander ".

The so-called "slander" is to speak ill of others.

The reason is called "entering", mostly because of others.

Bad words

Of course, there are certain purposes. In order to achieve this ulterior purpose, slander is to be heard to those who can influence the fate of those who are slandered.

Speaking of slanders to those who are of high status, they call it "entering".

In the unit, the "small report" is heard by the leader. If the leader is a realistic person, such a "small report" will not play much role.

But if the leader is a black and white person who is easy to listen to others, the "small report" will pose a threat to the accused.

If you work in a unit, you will inevitably have offense against others. If you are offended by people who are "villains", you have to guard against your "slander" in the leadership.

（1）先發制人

Generally speaking, those who spread rumors and gossip "

Black shape

"People, in order to make their own" small report "play the role of framing people, always study people's psychology.

In their practice of setting up people, they have gradually "groped" to such a rule, that is, in general, people often have deep impression on the first impression. Once formed, they often accumulate as a set of thinking.

For example, someone has no special impression of Zhang San, neither good nor bad.

If at this time someone told him how Zhang three behaved misbehaved and morally corrupt, then he would not even listen to the man's words. But in his heart of hearts, he had a big question mark about Zhang San's character and showed a bad feeling on his mind.

Until Chang three himself or other people argued again, those words that attacked Zhang three's behavior were pure and unfounded.

Because these views conflict with the first impression formed before, so it is very difficult to enter the brain.

Unless this impression is particularly strong or repeated repeatedly, it is possible to change or dilute the previous first impression.

This is like a blank sheet of paper. The first stroke is always clear. If you want to draw another picture on the painted paper, then the effort will not be much larger, and the images formed on the original paper will not be completely eliminated.

Those are good at making.

Small report

"People grasp the characteristics of people's thinking and psychology and try their best to make the best of them.

The people who are hurt by the arrow are often disadvantaged because of their lack of precaution. Therefore, most of them are in a disadvantageous position, and some people can not even get the opportunity to defy it.

We know that the first step is to tell black people to take the lead.

However, if it is possible for the framed personnel to take measures to actively protect themselves, or to stir up trouble, and to take the initiative to seize the initiative, will the situation be completely changed?

Therefore, for everyone who guards against and counteracts the "small report", we must not win the battle against the enemy until we win the battle. We should also act positively, and seize the opportunity before the villains of the "small report" report "black", so as to defeat rumors and rumors and slander them.

　　（2）針鋒相對

The most important thing to adopt "tit for tat" strategy to prevent and counter the "small report" is to select the right target, and to take the way of open debate to deal with the dissenters of the troublemakers, and boldly expose and strongly refute the rumors they spread, and denounce the despicable acts they have done.

This requires:

First of all, we should take the initiative to announce the details of what happened, and let people know about it.

Second, fight against "

Small report

"The sinner carried out a blatant debate, and put the objective facts and the" black materials "which were secretly reported, and the various false statements behind them.

Thirdly, it helps and guides people to refer to the objective facts and the "black materials" in comparison with each other.

As a result, the so-called "material", "report", "proof" and "heartfelt words" provided by some so-called people are clear and true.

（3）利用第三者

Using the third to deal with small reports can give people a real and reliable impression.

If there are no detached spectators who are brave enough to introduce people, Jiang's slanders are hard to be unravel.

（4）不給小人以把柄

The crafty man hits.

Small report

Framing others, always trying to catch a handle on the infringed body, and then unlimitely exaggerating, vigorously attacking, this is not only those who like to pick up and alienate, gossip generation, all the evil and evil villains are all so.

However, as the saying goes, "right body is not afraid of shadow."

If we do things for ourselves, we must be practical and realistic. If we speak honestly and honestly, be honest and honest, be honest and selfless, and be a trustworthy and worthwhile person, then the evil and evil people will not dare to have a sense of indifference. It is also difficult for a slander to seize the handle of "small report" to frame a person, so that it is far from the source of all evil and avoids the occurrence of disasters.

Editor: vivi