I Am Busy, I Am Happy!

The aura of "progress" surrounds me.

My name is wheat. I am a progressive person.

I think that I am very progressive.

When I was reading, I was well deserved in both academic and academic excellence, and my achievements and ranking were always far ahead. After work, I didn't waste any time and devote my limited energy to unlimited learning and work. In the past 3 years, I have passed 4 hard core examinations, such as judicial examination and GRE, and participated in over ten kinds of training such as business English, management skills training, social etiquette training and so on.

Recently, I am considering whether I want to read a MBA. My girlfriend, bean seedling, looks at me with admiration. "Wheat, you are going to wipe out all the examinations in China."

After three years of work, overtime is my normal work. Staying up late is a common practice. I work very hard at work and do not dare to relax after work.

I never spend time in bars, KTV, cinemas and so on. I never spend my time watching TV, chatting, shopping and so on. Even during the national day, May 1, and Spring Festival, I will bring my work home. My work is certainly gratifying and my performance is good.

Of course, in my life, there is no leisure time. When it is a good price, successful people always have to pay something. As long as they can see their progress, I recognize these costs.

But wait, where is the progress?

How can I not see where my progress is?

Over the years, I have learned so many things and done so many things, but where have all of them gone?

My work performance is the same as before. My income is the same as before, and my position is the same as before.

The only difference is that my working hours are getting longer and longer.

I took the judicial examination, just to have a chance to be a lawyer in the future. If I take the GRE exam, I can also choose to work in a foreign company in the future. I have learned so much knowledge about management. Now I have no chance to give full play to these knowledge.

I have been preparing, but I can not see the effect of these preparations, nor do I know where it will appear.

To this day, I have been making progress, but I am not happy at all.

I completely lost my leisure time. Is it not enough for me?

I don't want to work harder!

I just want to take back my leisure time. I hope I can have a drink with my friends and chat with bean sprouts.

Go shopping, watch movies, I want to watch TV, I want to sleep late!

But is that why I give up?

Am I not destined to succeed?

Find your own career orientation.

There is nothing wrong with effort and progress, but only by making progress, is it far away from success?

On the way of career development, people must know where the direction of diligence and diligence is before they start to work hard and make efforts.

The loss of direction is not only the realization of success but also the injury to oneself and life. In the story, wheat loses not only leisure time but also its own negation. This is the greatest harm to him.

To save the leisure time of wheat, the best way is not to give up!

The first thing to do is to find a career direction that belongs to wheat, which is the right way for him to go.

Set realistic goals and plan.

The way of life that satisfies personal needs, produces happiness and satisfaction is usually based on clear personal goals, so after setting a direction, we must set realistic goals and plan.

"Reality" has two meanings, one is to conform to one's career direction, the other is the feasibility of the target.

Many people are very busy, wheat is a kind of wheat can not be said that there is no goal, he set himself a lot of learning objectives, business English, GRE, management skills training, but did not focus on their own direction, so inevitably faced with a few years after the loss.

There are also a group of people who have clear goals and long-term goals. They are also very busy, but they keep their important goals on the side of each day and are busy with anxiety.

I often hear people say, "I was going to read English four years ago. If I had persevered every four years, I would have known it for a long time."

The importance of goals and plans often comes after a few years, when people turn back and look at the initial long-term goals.