I Am Not &Nbsp, Save Money And Start A Business.

When I worked as a babysitter for 8 years, I worked for 3 years as a helper, and my salary ranged from 300 yuan to 1000 yuan. I firmly believe that I will get better one day.

Every penny I earned was hard, but very clean and dependable.

8 years, nanny.

12 years ago, I was only 24 years old. At that time, many people in the village earned money by going out to work, and my family often had oil and salt Qian Doucheng problems. I asked my husband to work outside the country. He said he had no skills, no culture, and could not work.

No way, I said, then you take home at home, I go out to work.

That year, after the Spring Festival, I first went to Chengdu. I didn't find a job in a few days. Later I heard that Chongqing was very good at finding jobs, so she went to Xiaolong Kan in Chongqing. I moved to the labor market for 3 days. Many employers listened to my foreign accent, and only had primary school culture, and then they stopped talking to me. After that, I only had one yuan in my body, and my mind was secretly anxious.

Later that evening, an old man asked me to come to his home as a nanny with a salary of 300 yuan per month.

I had no choice but to follow the old man to his house.

There are 3 people in his family: old man, son, daughter-in-law.

My daily tasks are cooking, washing, cleaning and other housework.

On the second day, I got up early to wash vegetables and cook, but the old man made a big noise to me: "who let you wash vegetables and cook in the morning? Don't you know if we need soya bean milk in the morning?"

I used soya bean milk to eat soya bean milk, and I wouldn't use it at all. So I asked the old man how to use it in a trembling manner. The old man was angrily demonstrating, and his mouth kept scolding, "why so stupid? The dumpling!" for the first time being criticized by an outsider, I really wish to give the old man two slap in the face and then leave the ghost place.

But I can't, I'm broke, and I don't have any special skills. Where do I go? I must learn to be patient! So I made up my mind to go after myself when I earn enough money.

Since then, I have treated it as a process of my life's inevitable experience.

In fact, being scolded will make me learn a lot of things: Laundry fold, I was scolded, I know at least how to do it will not wrinkle; use microwave oven fault was criticized, let me know the usage of microwave oven; the guests poured tea slowly, was criticized, let me learn how to entertain guests......

I have been scolded many times, even I can not remember clearly, but I learned the urban family life in being criticized, and laid the foundation for me to stay in the city later.

When a babysitter is doomed to suffer a lot of grievances.

In addition to being scolded, there will be a lot of injustice. Once, the old man's son and daughter-in-law quarrelled because of a phone book. The daughter-in-law insisted that I took it, and winked at me.

The result was scolded by his son. Later, his daughter-in-law whispered to me, "there are several suspicious calls in him. I was lost."

Another time, the old man's son said that he had lost 300 yuan in his bag. He had never been to other places. He must have lost it at home. If he wanted me to look for it, it was obvious that he suspected me of stealing. I thought about it, so I took out my salary for one month and pretended to find it under the bed.

3 days later, the son suddenly remembered that he had paid the electricity charge for the 300 yuan, so I said that the 300 yuan found under the bed was actually I brought it out, which made the old family very moved.

Since then, I have been much better than I used to be, and I have continued to increase my salary to 500 yuan.

I stayed in this family for 8 years until the old man died.

3 years helper, I am injured, I am happy.

Leaving the old man's home, I wanted to learn a technology so that I could start my own business.

At this point, my husband began to be uncomfortable with me. When I was a babysitter, I could only go home once a year.

Now that I am not a babysitter, he thinks I will go back, but I continue to work outside.

I explained to him that if I earn a little more money, I will be able to go home and start my business in peace and comfort. Then we will not live in this separation.

But he doubted me that I must have someone else out there, otherwise he wouldn't have been so cruel and let him take the children alone at home.

In my mind, why should I not want to be with him?

Half a year later, he called me to say that he also went out to work. At present, a construction site in Wenzhou is earning well, and his children are studying in a migrant worker's children's school in Wenzhou.

He hoped that I would return to my hometown during the Spring Festival to get the divorce procedures done, so as to avoid suffering.

Hearing his last remark was like a bolt from the blue. I wanted to cry without tears. I hope he can change his mind during the Spring Festival.

During the Spring Festival, I went home early and bought some clothes for my husband. However, on the day of the Lunar New Year thirty, I waited for him to come home with a Qinghai woman.

I lost my mind on the spot. After the Spring Festival, I did not hesitate to divorce him.

When I arrived in Chongqing, it was already blooming and I was not worried about it. In those days, I felt that I had basically grasped the complete set of techniques for making buns steamed bread and white cake.

And frankly told the boss that he wanted to go out to open the same store and hoped that he would support it.

The boss is very open-minded. He says he has a bad shop, and your skills don't necessarily pass through. So, if you work for me for a while, I'll leave you alone. If you can do it, you can go to the shop, and he adds the salary to 1000 yuan.

During that period, it was my happiest time. Not only did I learn skills, but more importantly, the boss introduced me to an object named Fu Erwa, who was in the main city of Chongqing.