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Compliments Need Not Be Addressed In Front Of Me.

2010/11/24 10:14:00 108

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When you want to be close, you will want to be there.

oneself

In the face of the praise, "how wonderful you are! It's amazing," but because this is everyone's praise,

Effect

Not ideal.

Praise words are better than others.

For example, if you admire Mr. A's performance very much, you can see his colleagues and say, "Mr. A really works very hard!" so the comment will be sent back to Mr. A in another way. "Mr. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

However, there is no need for others to say flattery behind their backs.

Therefore, he would be very happy to learn from his population that he was praised.

Moreover, the indirect compliments mean that other people outside also hear it.

At this point alone, people can feel that their abilities are highly valued.

In the world of office workers, if you can express your compliments to your superiors,

Effect

It is bound to be better.

Although it is pleasant to hear compliments from anyone, it is more pleasant to hear from your boss.

Moreover, the leader will not be aware of his subordinates' strengths, and the other side will surely be grateful to you.

Even so, the content of praise should not be hasty as "he works very hard", or "your subordinates are excellent!" you should try to put forward specific content.

If you only say flattery, the other's boss will not take it seriously, and will not further spread the other person's ears.

If it is a specific compliment, it will not only impress the boss, but also convey it to the other person.

Therefore, if we want to put forward specific compliments, we must have the necessary observation.

If you do not have the ability to discern the strengths or abilities of others, your compliments will be limited by social language.

Conversely, as long as you have the power of observation, interpersonal relationships will continue to expand.

When you observe people, you always feel that your eyes are full of flaws.

Although it is very important to master these shortcomings, once we understand them, we should find out the charm that they do not even notice. If you can grasp the advantages and disadvantages of each other, your compliments will be persuasive, and you will know that the other side will be able to perform more effectively if you engage in those jobs.

Using this approach to understand each other, your relationship will also be activated.

Famous quotations on human relations

No rich man is great enough to need friends.