Conversation Topics And Techniques

Conversation is the basic way for people to convey information and feelings and enhance mutual understanding and friendship.

Topic of conversation

Talking with people who are not familiar with

It is difficult to start with everything. In general, the first conversation in communication is the most difficult.

Because you are not familiar with each other, do not know his character, hobbies and character, and are limited by time, do not allow you to understand or consider more, and should not be bold to bring up special topics.

At this point, you should take materials locally, which seems to be easier and easier to take, that is, finding the topic according to the circumstances at that time.

If you meet at a friend's home or at a friend's wedding feast, the relationship between the other person and his host can be taken as the first sentence.

For example, "I heard that you and Mr. A are old classmates?" or say, "you and Mr. a colleague?" this way, no matter what the right question is, it always causes the other party's topic.

If you ask the right questions, you can make a quick decision in accordance with the original intention. If you do not guess correctly, you can make a smooth sailing according to the explanation of the other side and talk freely on the other's life.

For example, "there are so many guests today." though they are old-fashioned, they can cause other topics.

Praising something is often the most appropriate and proper beginning.

Praise the flowers of the Lord's family.

Conversation skills

If you can talk to anyone for 10 minutes and interest each other, you are a good social character.

However, if we do not talk about difficulties, we must try to get through the difficulties.

It is very painful for many people to be silent because they have no knowledge of their career.

In fact, if you work hard, this unfortunate situation can be reduced, and even a good communicator is not difficult.

1. inspire others.

When talking with people, besides arousing people's interest,

2. conversation should be addressed.

You can't talk nonsense, talk nonsense, repeat the same words again and again.

3. avoid the word "I". Don't turn me into the biggest word in your language.

Do not say, "I think," and say, "what do you think?"

4. don't interrupt.

Suppose a person is talking cheerfully, when you suddenly interrupt, ask irrelevant questions and ask irrelevant questions. The speaker will never feel good about you. Probably no one will have a crush on you.

So don't interrupt other people's conversation with irrelevant questions.

5. do not offend others.

Do not infringe upon the privacy of others and avoid personal, trivial and prying questions.

6. don't be too long.

No matter intentionally or unintentionally, hurting others is unforgivable: deliberately mean and unintentionally.

It is necessary to pass on the facts of injury, or to express jealousy and malicious words, or to increase self worth by revealing secrets that others do not know.

7. discuss instead of argue.

Discussion is also a conversation, but angry disputes, one side fiercely attacking others, is a great enemy of good conversation.

8. listen carefully.

Half of good conversation depends on listening.

This includes all the senses, not only with the mind, but also with the heart.

Listening and speaking are equally important.

9. use affirmative language more.

When you speak, you often say "no," "x is not very good!" if the other person talks to you in the same tone, will you feel tired of talking with that person?

Therefore, the use of affirmative "x x" and "x x good" is always more harmonious than the negative expression of "not x *".

In order to smooth the conversation, flattery will also play a good role.