Five Precious Characters Of Success In Workplace Communication

In the process of on-the-job communication, you must embody your personality charm before you can make more friends.

　　 1, let modesty show your wisdom.

" Modest mind 使人進步,驕傲使人落后”.這是偉大的領袖毛主席給我們留下來的一條至理名言.謙虛是人的思想修養,其核心是善于發現自己的短處和別人的長 處,樂于以彼之長,補己之短.在現實的工作交往中,往往會有一些人,自認為悟性很高,對于他人的意見置若罔聞,總是喜歡高談闊論,以專家和智者自居. 這種過于自負的人無疑是令人生厭的,也許他們真的很強大,但卻很難得到別人的尊敬和賞識,注定會過得很孤獨.所以,各位職場白領們,專家建議你們:無 論在任何時候,都不要讓自己成為各方面的行家,要讓自己永遠以一種謙恭和學者的姿態去和別人打交道,即使你的學識勝于對方,也要表現出三分委婉的風度 .這樣,不但可以贏取他人的賞識和尊敬,也可以展現自我的才華和智慧.

　　 2, let the refined language show your efficiency.

　　精言,顧名思義,是一種精髓的語言,它會用很簡短的語句去表達其深刻的涵義,這不僅是一種言簡意賅的體現,更是一種工作效率的體現.與其相反,就 是喋喋不休和滔滔不絕.有這么一些人會讓你感覺到很痛苦,往往他們一開口,別人就會失去了說話的權利,他們從來不能簡明地表達自己的觀點,從來不知道 什么該說什么不該說,總是想到什么就說什么,語無倫次,表意不清,直到你失去耐心,他仍然閉不上自己的嘴巴. 各位白領們,請牢記言多必有失的道理,話 多不如話少,話少不如話好,多言不如多知,即使千言萬語,也不及一件事實留下的印象深刻.“多言是虛浮的象征,因為口頭慷慨的人,行動一定吝嗇.凡有 道德者,不可多言;有信義者,必不多言;有才智者,不必多言.”

　　 3, let tolerance show you. Manner .

　　俗話說:“人無完人”.我們大多數人都會具有武斷、固執、嫉妒、猜忌、恐懼和傲慢等缺點,而面對這些缺點,作為處世的一方,如果一味的去進行抱怨 和指責,那么不但不會解決問題的根本,反而會使這些人性的弱點暴露無疑,去促成一種更為可悲的后果.這是由人性的本質所決定的,當我們犯了錯誤的時候 ,并非意識不到自己的錯誤,只是因為一種虛榮心和自尊心的遮掩,固執地暫時不肯承認而已.所以,在這個時候,如果你用一種很不妥當的方式去指責他的缺 點和錯誤,必然會撞擊在他那固執的鐵墻上,是不會有任何良好結果的;如果在此時,你能夠保持一種良好的心態,以理解和寬容去品察對方,并委婉的讓對方 意識到自己的錯誤,這才是一種充滿智慧的交際手段.因此,作為職場的白領,與人為善才能與己為善,當你以寬仁之心禮待于人的時候,也必然會得到他人的 理解和尊敬,從而 To promote a more harmonious and friendly workplace communication circle, and to show your charm and elegant demeanor.

　 4, let silence show your connotation.

　　在職場交際中,也許大多數人都會認為語言是其主要的交流方式,但我卻認為,除了語言以外,沉默更是一種行之有效的交流手段.因為,沉默和語言相比 ,更富有理性,更富有智慧,也更富有內涵.比如,當你遭受到別人的無端指責和惡意詆毀的時候,而你又無法以坦言去澄清你的真源,在此時,你不妨保持一 下沉默,因為,沉默是金,沉默更是一種力量.當你保持沉默時,對方往往由于不知道你的底牌而感到無窮的壓力,這時,他的意志也將會受到動搖甚至不戰自 潰;如果此時你進行了反抗和爭辯,那么,你的愚昧行徑必將給對方以可乘之機,這樣一來,不但不會得到任何友善的結局,反而會使自己進一步陷入被動和尷 尬的窘境,同時也會大大的詆損了自己的完美形象.如果說,還有一種比語言更偉大的真理,那就是沉默.一切的含義都將潛藏在一個眼神、一個笑容、甚至一 個木然的表情之中,這恰 It is precisely the expression of our truest intentions. Therefore, wise men often understand their value of silence deeply, so as to show their deepest connotation in the best way.

　 5, let humor show you. charm .

Like a pale piece of paper, a lack of vitality can make people feel an endless depression. If appropriate, a little humour is added, and some bright colors will be embellished on this pale paper. It will make people feel a sense of visual beauty and ease of mind. Moderate humor is also a very important auxiliary means in modern communication mode. It will not only affect the progress of the work, but it can also play the effect and function that some "harsh words" can not achieve. As a white-collar in the workplace, we should skillfully use our humor and let laughter add harmonious colors to our contacts, so that laughter can add weight to our work. Some people think that humor is "finding pleasure" and "making jokes". It is hard for them to make a good job. For this reason, the experts of recruitment website have different opinions. They think that the work is intense and busy.

In interpersonal relationships, it is inevitable that people will feel a depression if they speak in a serious way. Even if you only say three minutes, you will feel that you have spoken for an hour. If you can come up with a little humor and make people laugh, even if you speak for an hour, you will make others feel as short as three minutes, which is the charm of humor.