Attention Should Be Paid To Key Issues In Elegant Speaking.

As a cultured person, we must use civilized language in conversation. The meaning of language to civilization is to eliminate the "slip" exit without identity. In conversation, we must not adopt the following terms:

(1) vulgar language. It is very insignificant to call out "old man", "old lady" and "little girl" in their mouths.

(2) foul language. To speak and swear, it is not only uncivilized, but also self belittling. It is very boring.

(3) slang. Once speaking, it seems banal, disgusting and disgust.

(4) meat words. Hanging gossip, pornography, and meat phrases will be less interesting.

(5) strange words. Speaking strange and black and white, it is hard for people to feel good about it.

(6) angry words. It is easy to hurt people and offend people when they speak with a spirit of complaining, complaining or scold others.

In conversation, language must be accurate, otherwise it is not conducive to communication between the parties. The main points to note are:

(1) pronunciation Accurate. In conversation, pronunciation standards are required. It is hard for people to hear the wrong pronunciation, mispronounced words, vague words, too much volume or too much volume. identity 。

(2) speed is moderate. The speed of speech is the speed of speech. When speaking, speaking speed is moderate or moderate, and speaking speed is too fast, too slow or fast and slow, which will affect the effect.

(3) be modest and modest. In conversation, the tone of speech must be kind, modest and equal. Do not casually teach or accuse others.

(4) content Concise. In conversation, we should be concise and comprehensive, with clear points, few words and better nonsense. Long winded and useless words, anyone can hear a headache.

(5) use less dialect. When speaking in public, standard Mandarin can not be used in dialects or dialects. Otherwise, they do not respect each other.

(6) use foreign language with caution. In general conversation, Chinese and Putonghua should be spoken. No foreign guests are present, so it is best to use the language carefully. Otherwise, there will be a show of suspicion.

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(1) be focused. In conversation, all parties want their opinions to be accepted by the other side. From this point of view, it is not difficult for the speaker to speak. The listener's expression of concentration in conversation is the greatest respect for the speaker.

Details are as follows:

Expression is serious. When you listen, you should look at each other and concentrate. An absent-minded expression can make the other person feel uncomfortable.

Action coordination. When you accept each other's views, you should smile and nod.

(2) the topic of conversation should be:

Personal privacy. In conversation, don't talk about the theme of personal privacy, such as age, income, marriage, family, health and experience.

Second, play tricks on each other. In conversation, one can not use sarcastic or oily speech to sarcasm, ridicule, make fun of each other, and make the other party make a fool of oneself.

(3) blame others. In conversation, No gossip or gossip can be disseminate. Otherwise, it is a lack of breeding.

4. Tend to be wrong. In conversation, do not talk about political misstatements, violation of laws and discipline, violation of social ethics, etc.

Objectionable themes. In conversation, don't talk about topics that make people feel sad or unhappy, and they are not interested in other topics, which can cause others' disgust.