Choose A Good Topic In Workplace Conversation.

(1) the topics to be chosen are:

(1) the established theme.

Established, refers to the two sides have already agreed on the theme of the talks, or one party to prepare the theme in advance.

It is suitable for formal conversation, such as business contacts, problem discussion, work discussion, asking for help, soliciting opinions, conveying information, etc.

Elegant theme.

Refers to the theme of civilization, elegance, elegant style, free from vulgarity.

The theme needs elegance, and can not pretend to be ignorant and elegant.

It applies to all kinds of conversations, including literature, art, philosophy, history, geography, architecture and so on.

Easy theme.

It's easy to talk about topics that are relaxing, tiring and boring.

Allow each other to express their opinions and give free play when talking.

It applies to informality.

It can be used for entertainment, sightseeing, scenic spots and historical sites, local customs and so on.

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Fashion refers to things that are popular at this time, now and here as the center of discussion.

It is suitable for all kinds of conversations, such as SARS virus, network, housing reform, stock market turbulence, car price and so on.

(2) the topic of conversation should be:

Personal privacy.

In conversation, don't talk about the theme of personal privacy, such as age, income, marriage, family, health and experience.

Second, play tricks on each other.

In conversation, one can not use sarcastic or oily speech to sarcasm, ridicule, make fun of each other, and make the other party make a fool of oneself.

(3) blame others.

In conversation, No gossip or gossip can be disseminate.

Otherwise, it is a lack of breeding.

4. Tend to be wrong.

In conversation, do not talk about political misstatements, violation of laws and discipline, violation of social ethics, etc.

Objectionable themes.

In conversation, don't talk about topics that make people feel sad or unhappy, and they are not interested in other topics, which can cause others' disgust.

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In conversation, we should take the other side as the center and give courtesy to each other and respect each other.

Don't monologue.

Conversation focuses on two-way communication, so we need to give more opportunities to speak.

Don't talk with one person, without giving others the chance to speak.

Don't be cold.

No matter whether the topic of conversation is related to yourself or whether you are interested in it, you should enthusiastically invest in it and cooperate with others.

In case of a cold conversation, try to break the deadlock.

The usual solution is to shift old topics and lead to new topics.

Don't interrupt.

Don't interrupt while others are speaking.

Even if you want to express your personal opinions or make supplements, you must wait until the other person has finished speaking, or ask for permission from the other side to talk.

Strangers are never allowed to interrupt or interrupt.

Fourth, do not raise the bar.

In conversation, it is not enough to argue with others, stick to one's own opinions, and argue unreasonable.

Self righteous, unreasonable argument three points, the principle of not allowing people to practice, contrary to the main thrust of conversation.

Don't deny it.

We should seek common ground and preserve small differences in conversation.

If the other party's conversation does not violate the principles of ethics, humiliation and national dignity, there is no need to negate it in person.

(4) grasp the time of conversation.

Like other business activities, conversation is also subject to time.

Therefore, we should have a good time in conversation, and it is enough to stop.

Conversation in general situations is best to end in less than 30 minutes, and the longest can not exceed 1 hours.

Each speaker's speech in the conversation is between 3 minutes and 5 minutes.

The charisma of language can attract others and strive for more support and cooperation.

But controlling language is not easy.

If you want to make your remarks popular, you should not only master the skills of speaking, but also have profound knowledge.

With a profound cultural background, we can make what we utter in words and have high credibility so as to impress the other side.

Therefore, learning and accumulation of language knowledge and language skills is very important. It is the source of language charm.