How Does The Workplace Deal With People Who Laugh?

People often say, "shopping malls are like battlefields". In fact, is this not the case in the workplace? In peacetime, you may be friendly and friendly, but once you face the interests of promotions, raises, layoffs and other benefits, the partnership will probably become a competitive relationship.

If you are still heartless and think "Hello, I am good, everyone is good", it is likely to be "calculated".

Therefore, in the office, it is not appropriate to be too kind. Sometimes it is necessary to show "Shrew" moderately, so as not to make people think you are a good bully.

For example, a person who will take advantage of you may be more interested in sex and evil than others.

Jean Valjean was recently depressed, and what she could not think of was that his colleague and the death party, who had two years of friendship, would compete with themselves in the same profession.

Chen Ran is a divorced woman. When she first came to the company, she had no experience in this industry.

As a head of the Department, ran Xi naturally became her entry teacher.

At that time, Chen Ran was very sweet to ran Xi's mouth. The left "ran sister" was called by a "ran sister" on the right. Chen Ran to the family after he left work.

Ran Xi is a very humane boss. She never refuses to refuse others' kindness. For example, Chen Ran often buys a small gift for her two year old son.

Two years later, Chen Ran to another company. She became the biggest competitor of Ran's company.

She threw out some of the company plans that she had revealed to her.

Analysis: the most taboo in the company is

Confused with friends' roles, work is confused with life.

Because the state of a friend is likely to disturb the state of work. People should be objective, fair and clear in their work. But because of infiltration of friends, people may lack fairness and become subjective and emotional.

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His (her) experience is tortuous and moving, even like the plot in the movie.

Such as the bleak life experience, gentle and beautiful love story.

He (she) often claims to be extraordinarily similar to your experience. Whenever you say something, he or she will be able to, and always create a sense of "being the same as the end of the world".

He (she) is always the same as you, and for example, there are obvious differences between you from outside to inside, but he (she) always says diligently: "we are just like two elder sisters." the mantra is: "you are just like me."

He (she) showed too much.

I always like to give you some small benefits. When you encounter something, he or she will ignore your need to ask for help, but never put it into practice.

He (she) did not cause you to rely on you.

Even arrange some activities for you, like to say, "let's go together..."

Apparently, he (she) seems to be very enthusiastic, but in fact, if you really do it, he (she) will change the way to exclude you.

Zhuoyan recommended fan Qing to her husband.

Fan Qing is Wen Jun's colleague. The two women were very lucky at first.

Especially after learning about Fan Qing's unhappy life, Zhuoyan produced a kind of sympathy between her sisters.

She often invited fan Qing to visit her home, and even found a house for her in her own building. At the same time, Zhuoyan also actively introduced her friend to her psychologist, hoping to help fan Qing to come out of the shadow early.

But two months later, Zhuoyan noticed that Wen Jun's mobile phone received the information from fan Qingfa repeatedly, and Wen Jung once revealed to his wife that fan Qing wanted to invite himself to a seaside city to travel together, and harassed repeatedly, and finally was refused by himself.

Zhuoyan was speechless.

Analysis: the wrong assumption is: I have to be friends with my husband's friends.

So, Zhuoyan did not have any defensive thoughts against Fan Qing. In fact, the mental world of those with mental problems can not be solved by one or two psychological counseling. If she can not promise long-term psychotherapy, she must be determined to stay away from her because she will probably invade your life.