Workplace "Small Action" To Create The Perfect Connections

In the workplace, though you work very hard, you may not get the approval of your boss. Although you have prepared a detailed information, you still can not win in this negotiation; though you want to establish good communication with your male colleagues, you are annoyed by their excessive laughter. You feel depressed and even begin to doubt your ability to work.

However, in fact, the problem is not based on your ability to work, but whether you have good quality. Interpersonal relationship 。 Try and use these little moves to communicate with others, which will surely benefit you.

Xu Min worked as an office director in a newly established advertising company. Her office has three functions: administration, logistics management and personnel management. Xu Min's predecessor was not inferior to her in terms of education, experience or work attitude and boldness. She even surpassed Xu Min in some aspects. But in the end, she did a lot of work, but could not get the recognition from her colleagues and superiors. Everyone felt that she was very arrogant and finally forced to leave. Summing up the lessons of previous failures, Xu Min came to the conclusion that there must be a smiling face.

　　 Advertising The competition is very intense, and the job pressure of the advertising salesmen is very great. They most want their work to be supported and understood by the company. If they can see a friendly and encouraging smiling face in the company after dealing with all kinds of customers, their hearts will be full of thick warmth. Smiling people always convey a message to colleagues: I admire you very much, I trust you, I would like to be your friend, we will cooperate very happily.

Now, no matter how heavy and complex the work is, Xu Min never shows up on his face and always keeps a friendly smile. Her "performance appraisal measures" were successfully implemented within the company, and the company's business volume also increased significantly.

There was once a motto in the world: "a person's smile is worth millions of dollars." From Xu Min's point of view, this is not an exaggeration. It is enough to explain how important a smile is to people's interactions and personal careers. In the face of different occasions and different situations, if you can treat others with smiles, you can reflect the excellent accomplishment and sincerity of others, and are very easy to be accepted by others.

Li Tao is the manager of a powerful trading company. Many people call him every day to discuss cooperation with him. But recently he unexpectedly signed a small order with a small unknown enterprise.

Li Tao said, "it really owes to the female saleswoman who called. In fact, she did not have any eloquence, but it was very objective to introduce me to their businesses and products. Her voice was deep and powerful, and her voice conveyed sincerity, enthusiasm and confidence that the language could not express. I couldn't help but trust her. After several phone calls, I personally went to the field for a visit, and finally reached an agreement. Through this, I came to the conclusion that pleasant sounds add some attraction to speakers while they delight in hearing. Now I ask the salesmen of the company not only to pay attention to their own appearance, but also to train their voices.

Round and pleasant voice is the congenital superiority of women. In the same sentence, high or low voice and intonation will affect expression and give people different feelings and evaluations. Some women like to raise their voices very high, sharp and soft. They may think they are very attractive, but they actually give people the impression that they are very artificial. The truly attractive voice is low, like the famous American language expert, Doroth Sarnoff, who has lowered her voice and lowered her voice to her students. As a result, they found that the lower their voice was, the better and more attractive and attractive they were.

As a professional makeup artist, Liang Wei has a deep understanding of women's beauty.

"Because Occupation Because of this, I met many beautiful women. I think women are great. They can express different beauty at any time and anywhere. However, they can also destroy beauty wherever and wherever they want. In most cases, those beautiful female guests will stand or sit in front of me. Pleasant, detailed expressions, graceful natural posture and beautiful costumes make me feel that she is respected and loved both at home and at home. However, some girls, though dressed beautifully and fashions, can sit there without any confidence. The most intolerable thing is that when some guests sit there waiting, they shake their legs and keep shaking. It's like impatience. When I meet such a rude person, I usually turn my back on her instead of looking at her. I don't feel beautiful in her beautiful clothes. "

"Some girls do not understand beauty. They think they will be beautiful if they wear beautiful clothes. In fact, it is the stretching posture that determines the effect of clothing on your body, not the other way around. No more beautiful clothes can change the bad impression of a depressed person. "

For women, the correct standing posture is to raise their head, straighten their chest, tighten their abdomen, relax their shoulders, place their front feet lightly, and put the center of gravity on the hind legs. When standing, the feet will be "T". I feel as if I have the power from above to pull up my head and body, my hands gently beside them. The comfortable, generous posture conveys to the surrounding people the calm, calm and calm information.

The correct sitting posture is to enter the basic stance, the hind legs can touch the chair, and then sit down gently. Two knees up, both feet in the middle or on both sides. If you want to lift your legs, your legs should also be in place.