We Need To Consider Carefully Whether Peers Are Friends Or Friends.

< p > as the saying goes, "parents can not choose, but husbands can choose". This sentence can be applied to the workplace, and can be changed to < < a href= > http://www.91se91.com > > Industry > /a > can be chosen, but colleagues can not choose.

It's not easy to get the job you want, but when you are ready to work hard, you find out how you can have such a colleague in your office. Are you a supportive friend or a friend?

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< p > < strong > rashly criticizing the opportunity of cooperation between peers: /strong > < /p >

< p > the workplace circle is not big. If you are in this circle, you will always meet your colleagues at any time.

Su Su, a marketing specialist in a cosmetics company in Hankou, has recently exposed her embarrassment in her blog.

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The company P is a fast moving industry. Its headquarters is in Shanghai, and there are many large customers in Wuhan.

In the past few years, Su Su has been busy with the customer's thanks at the end of the year.

A is a potential customer of Su's company. Su Su hopes to use this year-end appreciation to facilitate cooperation with A.

On the day of the meeting, Su was arranged in the reception hall. Except for the boss of A company, there was only a beautiful young lady.

At that time, the conversation was very relaxed, and the topic was dragged onto the rival company of Su Su.

When he didn't care, Su talked about the shortage of the company's products in the industry and the market.

Su Su thinks he is very professional and his views are very objective. I don't know why you are talking about it.

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When p left, she exchanged polite business cards with the lady who was visiting the room. She was shocked and embarrassed: the woman was a competitor in the rival company and was also a Marketing Commissioner.

"Oh, my God, I thought it was the Secretary of the General Secretary!" Su Su regretted. "It seems that you should always pay attention to the presence of your colleagues at all times.

The other company obviously has a close relationship with A company. This is a big argument. The expected cooperation seems to be out of the question.

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< p > < strong > girlfriends change, colleagues friendship has changed. < /strong > < /p >

Many friends in P are accompanied by awkward growth, especially after their good friends become peers.

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When p was in college, Qi Yue and Xiao Wei were the best friends. After the two met, they must enter the same company and continue their friendship after graduation.

After a few months' confused job search period, two people were accepted by a Real Estate Company in Wuhan and worked in the marketing department.

The first time in the workplace is wonderful. Two people work together, eat together, work together, go shopping together, whine together, criticize the boss together.

In a strange city, this sense of security makes each other feel very warm.

But the good times are not long. What happens again and again makes the relationship between the two people more and more delicate.

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< p > Qi Yue and the small work are all of the selling nature. The composition of salary is base salary plus commission. Months later, Qi Yue has not made any achievements yet, but with his own entry, he has made several large orders in just a few months, not only getting a generous commission, but also getting a good quarterly award as a newcomer.

At the end of the month, when the salary was paid, I asked my office colleagues to celebrate the song with karaoke. Everyone went there. Only a good friend, Qi Yue, did not go and asked why.

In the later days, he found that he seemed to be deliberately avoiding himself. Even if he happened to meet, he would simply greet a few words and be polite.

Gradually feel that once friendship, in the "peer" workplace environment, has quietly changed.

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< p > < strong > learning competitors to promote self growth < /strong > /p >

< p > > a href= "http://www.91se91.com/news/index_c.asp" > peer > /a > is a friend, most people have this view.

But for his colleagues, Shan Chang has another view.

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< p > Shan Chang works in a planning company in Wuchang. Although it is a small company, Shan Chang's work is creative, and every time he completes a business, he will get a huge Commission.

Therefore, from the salary point of view, Shan Chang's little days are still moist.

However, planning is the main business of the company. Although the work between colleagues is almost the same, it is very harmonious on the surface. However, the situation of personal grabbing and intrigue in the private place has occurred frequently, and the simple relationship between colleagues has become very complicated.

Therefore, even if we do the same thing every day, if we do not use our brains and have no inspiration and creativity, we will inevitably be eliminated by the market.

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< p > although Shan Chang often feels very stressed, she knows that the wisest way is not to kill her opponent, but to cultivate her opponent and learn from her opponent.

So, when Shan Chang is just a rookie in the workplace who is scolded by leaders, she is forced to compare herself with other designers' works. When she becomes a foil for others, she does not complain. Instead, she takes excellent designers as her biggest competitors and teachers, setting goals for herself and exceeding her competitors.

In addition, she has collected many works from her competitors, and has continued to study and research.

In this way, in just three years, she was very famous in the industry.

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Until P years ago, Shan Chang received a call from the headhunter.

Not long ago, she went into a dream foreign business successfully.

Speaking of his own success, Shan Chang said, "fostering your opponent is the most important thing for you to grow up.

There are several a href= "http://www.91se91.com" and "competition less than /a" opponents, which can maintain the workplace's "ecological balance" and force yourself to constantly learn and surpass.

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