Workplace: Don'T Step Into Your Colleague'S Privacy Restricted Area.

The so-called "family scandal" can not be promoted.

The "dirty linen" here refers not only to the scandal of one's family, but also to the inconvenience of others.

Perhaps you unconsciously discovered other people's secret, or the other side regards you as a bosom friend only to tell you, but you have disclosed to others inadvertently, such consequence will not only injure that person, also will cause everybody to despise you.

Because everyone has privacy, anyone will hide some unspeakable or unbrilliant mistakes, and let them not know.

Anyone who does not respect others' privacy will be disgusted.

Be careful not to pry into other people's private affairs.

Everyone needs to keep a secret. They all need a private space.

It's hard to forget when people are involved in this space, so try to stay away from other people's privacy restricted areas.

Practice.

Respect each other's right to autonomy. Even when you feel strongly that the other person is troubled, do not cross the boundary to inquire about the other's mind because of curiosity and worry.

To remain silent at the right time is also to respect and help others.

Most of the time, the gossip we hear is a bit of inaccurate information that is inaccurate and erroneous. The more people are usually spread, the longer they will spread, and the less gold the real situation will be.

And the spread of these gossip is often caused by people's worries and fears, so many people will sneer at the spread of gossip.

If you have been spreading the process of gossip, then, once you know, you will be the most untrustworthy person in your mind.

Everyone is afraid that once the secret enters your ear, you will be spread out.

Do not be a disseminator of gossip. When you hear someone else's secret, stay away from the disseminator and avoid misunderstanding. You are one of them.

For those rumors that will hurt the reputation or reputation of the parties, try to be as secretive as possible, and let rumors stop here.

In this way, you will become the most trustworthy person in the hearts of all, and people will also commend you for your kindness.

This will be beneficial to your career development as everyone is willing to work with a safe person rather than a time bomb.

A person has their own advantages and disadvantages. People like to show their advantages to more people, but they feel guilty about shortcomings. They try to hide them, lest they can be seen, and hiding these shortcomings will become a "forbidden zone".

In dealing with others, how to deal with the shortcomings of other people's careless exposure, try to keep away from "privacy" as far as possible, and avoid both sides getting into an awkward situation.

Some people, because of their long-standing habits, have developed some of the quirks in the eyes of the world, which may be insignificant in others' eyes, but he himself keeps tabs on it.

Therefore, in dealing with others, it is best to involve as many as possible the advantages of the other side, and try to avoid each other's shortcomings.

If you are too careless in this respect, you will probably get the other person to be angry and angry.

In conversation with others, we should also avoid topics related to the shortcomings of the other person or others, because after all, anyone is more or less subjective in judging others.

What we have heard about others is not necessarily entirely reliable. Perhaps there are many details that we do not know.

If we treat the person in a casual way, we are likely to make the situation more deviant from the truth.

Once we say something we shouldn't say or have inappropriate actions, it will cause irreparable damage.

Therefore, when someone talks to us about someone's shortcomings, the best way is to come in with your left ear and go out in the right ear. Do not believe this rumor, do not keep it in mind, or make a mouthpiece.

Everyone has

They all want to spy on other people's secrets.

But don't forget, "curiosity killed the cat."

Some secrets are less known or not known.

But it is someone who likes to assume, explore, verify, and steal other people's secrets in a variety of ways, and then actively tells you that you'd better avoid or change the topic.

Perhaps you feel that you have grasped the secret of others by grasping the secret of others, so that you are in an advantageous position.

If you think so, you can be very wrong.

If someone else's secret is in your hands, that person will have trouble sleeping and eating.

Just imagine, can such a situation make him feel at ease for you? Can he make you live safely?

Now that you know the secrets of others, you have the duty to keep the secret.

People who are secretly possessed by you also have more concerns and doubts about you, and fear that you will reveal the secret.

Once the secret is revealed, you will be the first suspect to divulge secrets, and you will surely get a vicious retaliation and even bring you disaster.

Therefore, we should adopt a distant attitude towards others' secrets, and we will not know if we do not know.

If you know other people by accident

The best way to deal with it is to keep silent. Even in front of me, we should keep silent, pretend to be deaf and dumb, keep it as a secret, or forget it when you have never heard of it.

Smart people, in some embarrassing situations, in order to avoid touching other people's taboo, to prevent trouble, cause each other's unhappiness, sometimes will act according to circumstances, use clever way to carry out communication, in order to achieve good results.

Such a person, on the one hand, can show his extraordinary ability to deal with crises, and win the reputation of being considerate and trustworthy.

In a situation that is unfavorable to you, in addition to quick recognition of mistakes in order to understand others, you can also use strategies to skillfully shift topics and divert attention from others to other things.

This will not only provide a buffer time for finding solutions, but also adjust the atmosphere at the scene, so that the situation will not deteriorate.

After many experiences, life experience will become much richer and people's resilience will be strengthened.

It is possible to turn danger into danger when circumstances are not conducive to oneself.

No matter what happens, keep a high degree of calmness, so that you do not mess up and speak wrong or do something wrong.

If you lack experience, your emotions become too tense or exciting, giving people an impression that you may not be able to cope with this situation.

No matter how hard you work, it's hard for people to change this feeling.

There may be others who think you are too aggressive and overconfident.

Conversely, if you are calm enough, you will play a stabilizing role. Everyone will think that you are more respectful and more respectful. You also have the opportunity to react quickly and point out the solution quickly and save the situation.

Variables always exist and exist everywhere.

No one can predict what will happen.

With constant changes and embarrassing situations, "Taishan will collapse before its color".

In addition, we should not be too rigid in form and do not know what to do. Finally, both sides will be deadlocked. This will lead to a more embarrassing situation.

For example, maybe you just know that your partner is your former competitor. At this time, the situation that you are prepared to deal with has changed, and you can not get along with him in the way of anticipation. You can choose to talk about some weather topics to give the two sides a time to change their mood.

After a period of buffering, you may put down your old grudge and cooperate sincerely for the common interests of the future.