Five Good Deeds Of Workplace White-Collar Workers

In modern times

1, let silence show your connotation.

In the workplace communication, perhaps most people will think that language is the main way of communication, but I think silence is an effective means of communication besides language.

Because silence and language are more rational, intelligent and meaningful.

For example, when you are exposed to other people's unwarranted accusations and malicious slanders, and you can not clarify your true source by frankly speaking, at this point, you may wish to remain silent, because silence is golden and silence is a force.

When you remain silent, the other party often feels a lot of pressure because you don't know your cards. At this point, his will will be shaken or even defeated. If you resist and argue at this point, your foolish behavior will give the other party a chance to take advantage of it, so that you will not only get any friendly ending, but will further fall into a passive and awkward predicament, and at the same time will also greatly degrade your perfect image.

As the book of wisdom says, "open heart is like a letter spread out in front of people.

There should be hidden secret cities in the chest. Great space and small ravines can precipitate important things.

Implicit comes from self control, and the silent side is the real victory.

If there is a greater truth than language, it is silence.

The meaning of all will be hidden in a look, a smile, or even a wooden expression. This is precisely the expression of our true intentions.

Therefore, wise people tend to have a deep understanding of the value of their silence, so as to show their deepest connotation in the best way.

2, let modesty show your wisdom.

"Modesty helps one to progress, conceit makes one lag behind".

This is a great motto left by Chairman Mao.

Modesty is the ideological accomplishment of a human being. Its core is to be good at discovering one's shortcomings and others' strengths.

There are many typical examples in ancient Chinese traditional virtues: Zhou Gongyan's theory of modesty, Confucius's talk about breaking up, Yan Ying's humble bow, and driver's correction, etc. they are all using a vivid and vivid example to reveal their true meaning of modesty.

As a career in today's career, it is all the same.

However, in the real work communication, there are always some people who think highly of their understanding and ignore others' opinions. They always like to talk big and live by experts and wise men.

This overconfident person is no doubt boring. Maybe they are really strong, but it is hard to be respected and appreciated by others. They are doomed to be lonely.

So here, I would like to advise you white-collar workers: never let yourself become an expert in every field at any time, and let yourself deal with others in a humility and scholar attitude. Even if your knowledge is better than your opponent, you should show three demeanor demeanour, so that you can not only win the appreciation and respect of others, but also show your talents and wisdom.

By analogy, a bunch of flowers, when it is sprouting up, you will naturally think of its exhaustion and dissipation; when it is in bud, you will naturally have a beautiful longing and expectation for it.

3, let the refined language show your efficiency.

Refined language, as the name implies, is a language of essence. It will express its profound meaning with very short sentences. This is not only a concise and comprehensive embodiment, but also a manifestation of work efficiency.

Instead, they are chattering and chattering.

There are so many people who will make you feel miserable. They often lose their right to speak when they speak. They can never express their views concisely. They never know what to say or not. They always think of what to say, incoherent and inexplicit. Until you lose patience, they still can't shut their mouths.

Zeng Guofan once said, "the two factors of bad life are self pride, two words, more words, more words, more words, more words, and words."

So, white-collar workers, please bear in mind that many words must be lost. Words are not as good as words, but words are not as good as words.

"Multi word is a symbol of vanity, because people who are generous in speech act stingy.

If there is a moral man, there must be no more words; if there is faith, there will be no more words; if there is a wise man, there is no need to say more.

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4, let humor show your charm.

Some people think that humor is "finding pleasure" and "making jokes".

In this regard, I have different views. In my view, intense and busy work is like a pale piece of paper, lacking vitality. It will make people feel an endless depression, and come up with a bit of humour properly, and make some colourful colors for this pale paper. It will make people feel a sense of visual beauty and ease of mind.

Therefore, I think moderate humor is also a very important auxiliary means in modern communication mode. It will not only affect the progress of the work, but it can also play the effect and function that some "harsh words" can not achieve.

For example, when you are in conflict with others, come up with a little humour, it can release the barriers between each other, and turn your worries into happiness. In a serious meeting, a little humor can be timely, which can relieve the tension and arouse the good appearance of the participants and improve the effectiveness of the meeting. When you are in an awkward situation, you can get a little humour, which can help you get out of the embarrassment and achieve the purpose of self mockery.

In short, as a white-collar in the workplace, we should skillfully use our humor, so that laughter can add harmony to our contacts and make laughter more effective for our work.

In interpersonal relationships, it is inevitable that people will feel a depression if they speak seriously. Even if you only speak for three minutes, you will feel that you have spoken for an hour. If you can come up with a little humor and make people laugh, even if you speak for an hour, you will make others feel as short as three minutes, which is the charm of humor.

5, let tolerance show your demeanor.

"The violet leaves its fragrance on its feet, that is tolerance."

The above famous saying comes from the famous American writer Mark Twain. He used a very short speech to cleverly reveal the philosophy of life in modern interpersonal communication.

As the saying goes, "no one is perfect."

Most of us will have the shortcomings of arbitrariness, stubbornness, jealousy, jealousy, fear, arrogance and so on. In the face of these shortcomings, as a party of life, if we go all the way to complain and blame, it will not only solve the root of the problem, but will expose these weak points of human nature to a more tragic consequence.

This is determined by the nature of human nature. When we make mistakes, we are not conscious of our own mistakes, but just because of the concealment of vanity and pride, and stubbornly refuse to admit it for the time being.

Therefore, at this time, if you use a very inappropriate way to accuse him of his shortcomings and mistakes, he will inevitably bump into his stubborn iron wall, and there will be no good results. If you can maintain a good mentality at this time, you can understand and tolerate each other, and tactfully let the other party realize their own mistakes, which is a kind of intelligent communication means.

Therefore, as a white-collar worker, it is good for others to be good to others. When you treat others with lenient spirit, you will gain the understanding and respect of others, so as to promote a more harmonious and friendly workplace communication circle, and to show your charm and charm.

In short, in the changing modern workplace, there may be such or "antagonists" for a variety of reasons, but in my view, the biggest "antagonist" is none other than yourself, because only yourself is the source of change.

White collar friends in the workplace, please use your communication way, let reason bloom a harmonious friendship, let wisdom bloom brilliant colourful ring.