6 Kinds Of Bad Psychology Make You "Clumsy".

When they are together with their familiar friends, they can talk without saying anything, but when they encounter strangers, they will be unable to speak and give people the illusion of "quiet".

Or to see authority, elders and superiors become tongue tied. For this reason, a lot of people will get caught up in speechless words - anxious - the more anxious they are - the more vicious they can not speak.

What makes your language short circuited?

Many people are annoyed that they can't be relaxed on every occasion, and they really don't know where they are stuck.

In contrast to the following situations, it is estimated that there is always one or even several suitable for you.

A. pursues perfection, and is afraid of making mistakes.

Some people are praised all the way, so in order to gain the recognition of others, he is accustomed to letting himself do not speak, then he can make mistakes.

To give yourself such a high standard, it is inevitable to lose.

As long as he is being corrected or ridiculed, he will accumulate nervous factors next time and create many psychological barriers for the speaker.

B. has a strong defensive mind and alert mind.

Most people are self correcting in the process of growing up to tell when and when to say something.

But there are always some people who bury their defense against others in the unconscious.

Their consciousness wants to communicate smoothly with others, but the subconscious mind always sends out the brakes of "the curse comes from the mouth".

Performance is entanglement, thinking and doing.

Children who are severely disciplined by their parents or teachers will be subconsciously speaking before leaders and authority.

Children who are younger than brothers and sisters are always feeling inferiority towards their peers, or they have been deceived by strangers. They will no longer be able to talk to others. They must have enough sense of security before they can unload their inner armor.

D. has a single interest.

If you only like tomatoes, then friends who like other vegetables do not speak.

Many people find themselves in an environment like an outsider, and colleagues are not interested in discussing topics.

Whenever we get together to chat, he can't plug his lips. He always feels left out.

You are slower to integrate with the environment, such as from strange to familiar, and you may need more than a year for a month.

We can often find such a friend around us: a quiet person who suddenly becomes fond of jokes and let everyone take a look.

It is not that he has changed, but that he has done so.

F. phase physiological response.

No matter how many days a woman has, she has to talk for a few days every month.

Or this period of time is rather tiring. Mental deficiency will also hinder the development of language functions.

Emotion is also a pointer. In life, everything goes smoothly in work and emotion.

On the contrary, if we go all the way around Mai Cheng, even if we want to talk, it will be hard to say.