How Many Have You Stepped On In The "Minefield"?

　　 Minefield 1: always thinking of others.

Many people say " Workplace If a battlefield, you do not calculate others, others will calculate you. Of course, there is a reason for this. People in the workplace can not be too innocent and innocent. They always have no intention of interacting with colleagues without reservation.

But if you only regard your colleagues as "enemies" and think of every way to pull down each other every day, you should reflect on yourself. Anyone will hate other people's calculations behind their backs. Calculating others is also one of the most dangerous behaviors in the workplace. The consequences of such behavior are despised by colleagues, and they lose their jobs or even lose their reputation. As a boss, of course, he does not want his subordinates to spend their time and energy on calculating people.

In dealing with people in the workplace, do not be ignorant of everything, and never think about others, because everyone wants to have a harmonious and relaxed. work environment And work with like-minded people.

　　 Minefield 2: give Boss Next Ultimatum

By the end of the year, many people in the workplace hope to have a chance to talk to their boss with this opportunity. They also talk about "raise salary". There are also surveys that show that 70% of the working people will consider job hopping when the salary is not increased. But this fact does not mean that you can threaten the boss with dignity, "I will leave without giving me a raise," as a bargaining chip.

This threat seems to be very deterrent, but it does not necessarily play a role and is more likely to cause fire. If you really have the strength, the boss may satisfy you in order to retain you, but the boss will also leave a bad impression on you. What is more likely to happen is that the boss told you, "I can't satisfy your request", so it's easy to push yourself to the awkward position of getting in or out. If you want to practice your promise, pack up your things and leave, or you can only swallow it and then do it. Either way, you will not continue to work joyfully.

　　 Minefield 3: often borrow money from colleagues.

It is not a big problem to ask a colleague to borrow some money under special circumstances. When anyone has a sudden encounter with something, it is almost the same meaning. But if you often borrow money from your colleagues, it's not very good.

Generally speaking, there is a lot of communication between colleagues. There is a lot of economic dealings. The best way is to have a system. In such a way, sharing expenses will not cause a person to suffer too much deficit, nor will he be unhappy with the amount of money he paid.

If you are looking for a colleague to borrow money under special circumstances, remember to return it to your partner as soon as possible. If you often borrow money from your colleagues or do not lend money for a long time, you will easily leave a bad impression on your co-workers, and think you are a person who has no plan and will even feel a sense of distrust for your affairs.